babyme - oscar comprise of scanning & BT combination, not invasive - usually arond week 11-16. If calculated as high risk, sometimes Doc will recommend amnio (i think not poke the baby, just into the womb to get some amniotic fluid? not sure). But remember you have a choice, even if you don't want to do Oscar. Just FYI, I had a colleague who did amnio & she miscarried so amnio risk is real. But there are also friends who did it and was cleared & bb ok. For my detailed scan at wk20, the sonographer stil looked for nose bridge as she said DS babies usually dun have.
Joanne03 - Jia-you! you will make it. Stay calm & talk to us here, ok?
catherine - cool cool. Still got time to shop. Have you started to list what you need? I got a free catelogue book from Mothercare (not sure if it was free! haha. but i just took and no one stopped me).
It lists all the main product from cot up to disposal maternity panties. Really helped me figure out the nitty-gritty stuff as a first time mum. I m also using that to tell friends who have said they want to buy stuff for BB (instd of give angpow) what to buy - like the bibs, cot bedsheet, shower gels, etc. instead of receiving tons to bb gift pack. So if I know friends are buying, i just tick that off my checklist & forget about it
So DH & I just focus on sourcing the big stuff like stroller, car seat, cost, breastpump, etc.
Hazel - going to take up your tip & start (window) shopping now. I realise tummy in 2nd tri grows much faster and by 3rd tri I can imagine I will be tired again. Now super-energetic haha.. plus nice weather + sales!! so might as well take advantage. thkx!