Hey mommies sorry for the long reply. Pretty bad news, doc (@ Tampines 1 Raffles Women's Clinic) spotted sac and baby via you/S on saturday. But heartbeat was not detected. Doc diagnosed it as a blighted ovum and due to tremendous support from hubby, I've got over it quite quickly. Doc initially scheduled for a D&C tomorrow and I was ok to go for it and have a closure, but since cancelled it because of family members on both sides asking us to have a 2nd opinion.
From what the doc and reports say, 15% of pregnancies end up in a blighted ovum case, and in 50% of miscarriages, it is a blighted ovum. Sounds relatively high. Baby stopped growing at around 6 weeks and I'm currently 8 weeks. Though disappointed, I think hubby and I have moved on whereas the whole world (okay i'm exaggerating, just relatives) seems to be disbelieving it. :/ *Sigh*
Will be having a 2nd opinion at Kandang Kerbau Hospital on Wednesday 9am and if it's truly a blighted ovum, we'll schedule the D&C for this Friday. I'm currently not having bleeding, i feel fine, and I'm not experiencing cramping. Doc says that I might be experiencing a miscarriage in the week or so because the pregnancy won't be able to support itself.
Regardless of the bad news, I'm handling it pretty strongly, so no worries mommies, dont't get affected! We'll be trying again and really hoping to meet up with you gals soon too I also just wanted to also say, jiayou to everyone here who has been super duper supportive!! Go go mommies!