groovy2009
Active Member
Care-Giver,
The most important thing is the kids know who will still be for them anytime, which is their own parents (or maybe grandparents).
Usually maid is just temporary. They won't be there all the time for you. That's what happens to my #1. Last time she's very close to my previous maid. Now that she's gone, she prefers us compare to the new maid. But maybe wait for 1 year then it will change again. huhu.. It's too bad, but they are only temporary.
I don't have privilege of my parents/in law can take care of my kids. But I guess if kids is closer to grandma/grandpa, until old also closer to them. But if maid, since they are just temporary, sooner once they are gone will not be like that..
The most important thing is the kids know who will still be for them anytime, which is their own parents (or maybe grandparents).
Usually maid is just temporary. They won't be there all the time for you. That's what happens to my #1. Last time she's very close to my previous maid. Now that she's gone, she prefers us compare to the new maid. But maybe wait for 1 year then it will change again. huhu.. It's too bad, but they are only temporary.
I don't have privilege of my parents/in law can take care of my kids. But I guess if kids is closer to grandma/grandpa, until old also closer to them. But if maid, since they are just temporary, sooner once they are gone will not be like that..