Jo - My mama ask me to start with one week once den slowly increase to twice weekly when date nearer can drink alternate days. I didn't really follow oso cos I didnt believe what they say on baby will be more cleaner. -_-" but indeed my baby is v much cleaner from what I tot. Lol
(2012/03) Mar 2012
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zelda_zard
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Michelle: wah liao ur MIL too much! Luckily u hv no post natal blues!! I had abit e first few days due to hormone changes plus 1st time mummy. But I think u're a v independent mummy as still can cook n clean for yourself n bb!
Jo: wear maternity clothes oso useless as all pretending to sleep! I oredi given up.
Jo: wear maternity clothes oso useless as all pretending to sleep! I oredi given up.
zelda_zard
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I can feel my tummy turning hard now n skin is stretching esp aft meal. Tummy is fast expanding man!
Zelda, really don't like English speaking old uncles. sorry la but they v demanding of their so called rights and bull-doze people in their way, so uncouth!
I'm not asking ppl to give up seats lor, if there are old ppl or ladies with bigger tummies I'll still give up seat if i'm in reserved seat. If old ppl fall down wah, can't get over it man.
I'm not asking ppl to give up seats lor, if there are old ppl or ladies with bigger tummies I'll still give up seat if i'm in reserved seat. If old ppl fall down wah, can't get over it man.
<font color="000080">zelda >> Haha yar... I think at this stage still early, I see ppl looking at my tummy and can't decide if I'm preg or just fat, then give up and go to "sleep" 
Maybe afraid give up the seat to fat lady get scolding instead!
Jo >> That time I was on the mrt one 40+ yr old woman try to rush the seat with me when I already sit down halfway! But I'm much bigger size than her, so I swung my backpack at her and sat down I very don't give face one... esp I've seen her around and she always push and shove people and cut queue to get into the mrt.</font>
Maybe afraid give up the seat to fat lady get scolding instead! Jo >> That time I was on the mrt one 40+ yr old woman try to rush the seat with me when I already sit down halfway! But I'm much bigger size than her, so I swung my backpack at her and sat down
I very don't give face one... esp I've seen her around and she always push and shove people and cut queue to get into the mrt.</font>michelle22
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Zelda : i also got the post natal blues!!! during first week... that y that time i crying n lock with princess in a room that is the time my hubby worry me and ask what i want so i tell him i cannot tanhan mil.... too much already... u keep ask me to bear... but u know now is the rest time not the disturb n make trouble during this time de lor.... as i need rest.... either ask her stop coming if not i want to go my nanny place de... then he say ok he call mil tell her i not at home after today....... so that is how i tell myself i prefer settle myself instead let mil come and make trouble lor..... tire n stress that time when mil come i not able to sleep n rest lor.... u know.... she will nag this n that de.... this time my hubby worry.... when #2 come out how... i able to handle..... or really want me to go nanny place to stay... haha....
michelle22
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I agree what zelda..... as my tummy is big.... when unknown aunt ask me u pregnant 5month liao har.... then people give up seat to me.... haha..... i never say anythings de hor... depand when u able to meet some people is trying get u a seat... but i know is hard to meet theses type of people.... even i saw a old man can go to the seat tell the person excuse me.... omg... i cannot believe man....
Michelle: I m same like u, I already got a big tummy b4 pregnant, so now I wear maternity wear, ppl thought I got twins... Then nowadays got ppl give up seats to me... But the parents at my centre did not know I m pregnant as they still think I m fat... As so many yrs they seen me in the same shape....
michelle22
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Linda : i dont know why this #2 grow so fast.... n so big tummy..... haha..... going to 11week people mistake i 5months now... omg.... i just keep quiet haha....
When i got #1 i prefer take bus cause when i take bus... bus driver will make sure i got seat to sit before he drive off..... got a time no one given seat to me... the driver angry shout can anyone pls give up sit to pregnant woman.... omg....... mrt hard la... when i 7months pregnant no one want to give up seat to u de.... har.... sometime really dont know why theses people like that de.... even i pregnant i give up seat to those very old people.... when they see me give up seat they super peisay lor....
When i got #1 i prefer take bus cause when i take bus... bus driver will make sure i got seat to sit before he drive off..... got a time no one given seat to me... the driver angry shout can anyone pls give up sit to pregnant woman.... omg....... mrt hard la... when i 7months pregnant no one want to give up seat to u de.... har.... sometime really dont know why theses people like that de.... even i pregnant i give up seat to those very old people.... when they see me give up seat they super peisay lor....
michelle22
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Kaye : ya i think most ang moh will do that de...
morning ladies... Zzzzzz
Michelle, you really very poor thing... but no matter what, must jia you jia you!!!
dym, good luck on your infant care search! yours is new centre right? if not you can go to forum to check with other parents if that place is good and if the caregivers are caring and loving.
daisy, my first is also very guai. my ML i was alone with him at home and i could handle it by myself, with all the cooking and taking care of him. but i heard #1 guai #2 will be naughty, so i am quite worried. plus my first one will turn 18mo when the #2 pop so i am worried he will have the terrible two signs and will be hard to manage... sigh!
for coconut juice i heard is to drink during last month of pregnancy. cannot drink too early cos too liang (aka "cooling"). plus cannot eat the meat cos the meat is too heaty. but really must drink! cos the bb will come out very clean
Michelle, you really very poor thing... but no matter what, must jia you jia you!!!
dym, good luck on your infant care search! yours is new centre right? if not you can go to forum to check with other parents if that place is good and if the caregivers are caring and loving.
daisy, my first is also very guai. my ML i was alone with him at home and i could handle it by myself, with all the cooking and taking care of him. but i heard #1 guai #2 will be naughty, so i am quite worried. plus my first one will turn 18mo when the #2 pop so i am worried he will have the terrible two signs and will be hard to manage... sigh!
for coconut juice i heard is to drink during last month of pregnancy. cannot drink too early cos too liang (aka "cooling"). plus cannot eat the meat cos the meat is too heaty. but really must drink! cos the bb will come out very clean
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wiky
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Morning!!
Nice weather to sleep in ... but it's ok, mid-week liao, 2 more days to go. hehe.
Daisy, Michelle,
I agree boys are so much "cheaper". Only have choices like tops and bottoms, not so much variety like gals - dresses, skirts, leggings, capris plus need to buy hairbands, rubber bands, accessories, nice panties & whatnots. Think the amount I spent on my boy over these years is probably less than half of what I spent on my gal.
The only thing is boys' toys are quite exp.
Nice weather to sleep in ... but it's ok, mid-week liao, 2 more days to go. hehe.
Daisy, Michelle,
I agree boys are so much "cheaper". Only have choices like tops and bottoms, not so much variety like gals - dresses, skirts, leggings, capris plus need to buy hairbands, rubber bands, accessories, nice panties & whatnots. Think the amount I spent on my boy over these years is probably less than half of what I spent on my gal.
The only thing is boys' toys are quite exp.
michelle22
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Morning ladies
Drypantz ya I will jia you jia you.... Sleepless night again...
Chiny today later I might go down PS... But not confirm yet.....
PS got any nice food to intro ma....
And mummy u all still got eat laska n curry ma.....
Drypantz ya I will jia you jia you.... Sleepless night again...
Chiny today later I might go down PS... But not confirm yet.....
PS got any nice food to intro ma....
And mummy u all still got eat laska n curry ma.....
wiky
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Talking about bus, I was wearing a dress that shows my bulge quite obviously this morning but people just stare at my tummy, at me then sat still. :S
Luckily my journey was only a short one, 15mins. Hb asked me to drive to work but if drive will have to reach real early else no parking lot at my office here. Hopefully when bigger, people will give up seats more readily.
Luckily my journey was only a short one, 15mins. Hb asked me to drive to work but if drive will have to reach real early else no parking lot at my office here. Hopefully when bigger, people will give up seats more readily.
BB - ytd brought my girl there and she already told me she want change school. this morning wake his daddy up n tell him she is going to new school. -_-" actually both centers v near only just that her current one keep hiring FTs..i dun like. the teacher there not sure about next year intake so she ask me to call principal instead. i still thinking whether to register both at the same time as deposits for both cost a bomb lo..
daisy_85
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morning ladies ! =)
drypantz - my #1 & #2 is ok for me cos they rather quiet and easy to look after .. wat i also worry is this also , just got the feeling this wont be as easy as my 2 boys anymore haha ..
BB - ya lol , boys like 2 choice only .. tops and bottoms , sometimes wanna buy clothes for them oso sian cos see here see there almost the same de , nothing very nice ..
drypantz - my #1 & #2 is ok for me cos they rather quiet and easy to look after .. wat i also worry is this also , just got the feeling this wont be as easy as my 2 boys anymore haha ..
BB - ya lol , boys like 2 choice only .. tops and bottoms , sometimes wanna buy clothes for them oso sian cos see here see there almost the same de , nothing very nice ..
wiky
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Dym,
haha!! Your gal so cute.
I think the FTs problem happens in most cccs, cannot really do much. My kids' ccc has quite a few too but as long as they can speak proper English/Mandarin and caring, should be ok.
If you register the younger one 1st, will there be no more vacancy for your gal later on? But then if nearby then maybe not so bad to send to 2 different centres also.
haha!! Your gal so cute.
I think the FTs problem happens in most cccs, cannot really do much. My kids' ccc has quite a few too but as long as they can speak proper English/Mandarin and caring, should be ok.
If you register the younger one 1st, will there be no more vacancy for your gal later on? But then if nearby then maybe not so bad to send to 2 different centres also.
wiky
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Daisy,
have lah, 5 choices. Long sleeves, short sleeves, sleeveless, shorts and long pants, hahaha!!
I also seldom buy clothes for my boy cos like you said, all same. Just different colours/designs of t-shirts. Anyway my boy also bochap, will just wear anything I give him. Unlike the gal, must choose and match ...
have lah, 5 choices. Long sleeves, short sleeves, sleeveless, shorts and long pants, hahaha!!
I also seldom buy clothes for my boy cos like you said, all same. Just different colours/designs of t-shirts. Anyway my boy also bochap, will just wear anything I give him. Unlike the gal, must choose and match ...
daisy_85
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BB - LOL !! singapore is too hot to wear long sleeves , sometimes saw some clothes which are long sleeves but they nvr want it and claim its too hot to wear tat and they shy to wear sleeveless LOL !
recently my 2nd boy have a liking for tweety bird so i went out with him trying to find some tops which have tweety bird prints and end up all those tops are only for girls , lol he so pissed off and asked why only girls can wear tweety bird haha !
recently my 2nd boy have a liking for tweety bird so i went out with him trying to find some tops which have tweety bird prints and end up all those tops are only for girls , lol he so pissed off and asked why only girls can wear tweety bird haha !
I work in childcare centre,my boss dun like to hire FT or malay except for chinese tr frm china, as the things they teach is totallly different from local chi. I got a student, the previous centre all indian tr and auntie, so the boy everyday go to school n cry, so decide to change school... my centre do not have infant care so alot of my parents will put the siblings above 18mths in our centre and the other siblings in infant care...
wiky
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Daisy,
long sleeves usually for year end or when we go movies. Oh ya, your boys quite big, shy to wear sleeveless. My boy loves his "ah pek" sleeveless tops lo, can wear it to everywhere. I'm the shy one to be seen with him in those.
Tell your boy no tweety bird but angry bird alot! haha!
Dym,
oh ya, the problem about FTs is they come and go once contract is up. My kids' chinese teachers always leave just before year end so end up they will have a new teacher for just the last 2 months before changing to ANOTHER in Jan.
Huijun,
but I heard from the ccc director not easy to get locals so no choice they had to get phil, chinese FTs.
Mind if you tell us which ccc you are teaching at? Near your place? Think many parents will love your ccc.
long sleeves usually for year end or when we go movies. Oh ya, your boys quite big, shy to wear sleeveless. My boy loves his "ah pek" sleeveless tops lo, can wear it to everywhere. I'm the shy one to be seen with him in those.
Tell your boy no tweety bird but angry bird alot! haha!
Dym,
oh ya, the problem about FTs is they come and go once contract is up. My kids' chinese teachers always leave just before year end so end up they will have a new teacher for just the last 2 months before changing to ANOTHER in Jan.
Huijun,
but I heard from the ccc director not easy to get locals so no choice they had to get phil, chinese FTs.
Mind if you tell us which ccc you are teaching at? Near your place? Think many parents will love your ccc.
michelle22
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Hi ladies
how long is waiting time for dr lawence Ang.....
how long is waiting time for dr lawence Ang.....
zelda_zard
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Michelle: The post natal blues is bad hor? I have it about 1 week too... don't know why abit feel like crying when I'm usually a v positive & bubbly person. Bb cry I can also cry. Immediately when I reach home I quarelled with my own mom bcoz she's so naggy! Luckily she was on leave for a few days & thereafter she left me alone with CL & maid. I think PS food court got this yummy Indo food always long q. Not sure if it's still there or not as I seldom go PS as it's always v crowded & I feel got nothing to buy ;p
BB: Ya same here! People in the bus just stare at my tummy... today I don't have 9am meeting so I waited for 2nd bus, praying that it's not crowded but still crowded lor. No choice had to dangle in the bus carrying 2 boxes of mooncakes for my office. My mom made the mooncakes so I brought to office before my greedy maid finishes all of it!
Daisy: Your 2 boys easy to take care huh? My gal is a "monster" since she's born. hahaha... Her cries v loud de & aft birth I can hear her crying from the nursery which is 4 rooms away from my room! When I brought her to see PD in the 1st week, a mummy in the clinic asked me whether I gave birth in TMC & stayed in level 5... bcoz she was my next door neigbour & can recognise my bb cries!!! The next day after I was discharge from hospital, some of my neighbours came to visit me bcoz they could hear my bb crying so loud so they knew I pop liao lor!! Bb has colic a few wks aft birth & she will start to cry from 11pm till 3am. I have to keep carrying & rocking her to sooth her. So I permanently slept in the living room during my ML so that my hubby can have proper sleep as he still needs to go to work. There was once I carried bb from 11pm till 6am as she kept crying! When my maid woke up, I immediately threw bb to her & went to sleep. Can't take it anymore! Some people tell me yi shan hai bi yi shan gao & #2 may be more notti! I don't know lah... i just pray everyday that my #2 is an angel ;p
BB: Ya same here! People in the bus just stare at my tummy... today I don't have 9am meeting so I waited for 2nd bus, praying that it's not crowded but still crowded lor. No choice had to dangle in the bus carrying 2 boxes of mooncakes for my office. My mom made the mooncakes so I brought to office before my greedy maid finishes all of it!
Daisy: Your 2 boys easy to take care huh? My gal is a "monster" since she's born. hahaha... Her cries v loud de & aft birth I can hear her crying from the nursery which is 4 rooms away from my room! When I brought her to see PD in the 1st week, a mummy in the clinic asked me whether I gave birth in TMC & stayed in level 5... bcoz she was my next door neigbour & can recognise my bb cries!!! The next day after I was discharge from hospital, some of my neighbours came to visit me bcoz they could hear my bb crying so loud so they knew I pop liao lor!! Bb has colic a few wks aft birth & she will start to cry from 11pm till 3am. I have to keep carrying & rocking her to sooth her. So I permanently slept in the living room during my ML so that my hubby can have proper sleep as he still needs to go to work. There was once I carried bb from 11pm till 6am as she kept crying! When my maid woke up, I immediately threw bb to her & went to sleep. Can't take it anymore! Some people tell me yi shan hai bi yi shan gao & #2 may be more notti! I don't know lah... i just pray everyday that my #2 is an angel ;p
hmm i also very sian abt dressing my boy up... hahaha! cos it is always the boring same old things. really hope i will have a girl this time round!! can get all the cute pinkish things for her! whee~
for infant care, mine also recently hired a PRC. my son totally dun like her - he turns away at the sight of her and pout. i wonder what she did to him man. the rest of the caregivers are local aunties who are rather nice and caring. but think it is hard to hire locals nowadays lah so the centre has no choice.
zelda, i hear it's opposite one! so your #2 will be an angel
good luck!
for infant care, mine also recently hired a PRC. my son totally dun like her - he turns away at the sight of her and pout. i wonder what she did to him man. the rest of the caregivers are local aunties who are rather nice and caring. but think it is hard to hire locals nowadays lah so the centre has no choice.
zelda, i hear it's opposite one! so your #2 will be an angel
BB: the ccc with a lot if Indian staff is in sembawang. I work at Cambridge at Sembawang... It's a big centre been around for 3 yrs n I work there since the opening... And all my collegues been there with me for around the same time... The turn over rate in my centre is low as we all enjoy working with each other n the boss is gd... We just move to a new place which is two times bigger than the previous place, and seats r filling up fast I think due to the environment... It's true tat its hard to find local teachers as the pay is not very high n we got to do all the work if nanny n not just teaching... FT contract de n will go when contract finish... My boss just hire one frm phillipines, n so far she is ok... But boss still got reservations abt her...
daisy_85
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BB - those type white color and very thin material? i tink its cooling to wear those but my boys damn paiseh wearing sleeves , keep pulling the sleeves as if will longer so i gave those sleeves tops to my fren's boy ..
lol angry bird ! so far he haven told me he like angry bird haha ..
michelle - haven cfm ur gynae yet ah?
zelda - lol , they rather nice to look after , newborn period they can sleep thro out the nite like last feed is 12am , they can sleep till 6am and start moving abit here n dere and once u feed them , they nvr cry de ..
during noon time , i can just carry them out with 1 diaper and some wet tissue and i can go out have lunch and walk abit den i go home , they can last 4hrs for their feed so quite enuff time for me to eat and shop ard lol
wow , ur gal so cute , i tink she cry cos she wanted neighbours to come over and see how sweet she is ..
i just worry this baby might not be easy as #1 & #2 and donno if i can handle not .. lol
lol angry bird ! so far he haven told me he like angry bird haha ..
michelle - haven cfm ur gynae yet ah?
zelda - lol , they rather nice to look after , newborn period they can sleep thro out the nite like last feed is 12am , they can sleep till 6am and start moving abit here n dere and once u feed them , they nvr cry de ..
during noon time , i can just carry them out with 1 diaper and some wet tissue and i can go out have lunch and walk abit den i go home , they can last 4hrs for their feed so quite enuff time for me to eat and shop ard lol
wow , ur gal so cute , i tink she cry cos she wanted neighbours to come over and see how sweet she is ..
i just worry this baby might not be easy as #1 & #2 and donno if i can handle not .. lol
michelle22
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Dym : I just call up Bukit Batok Dr Wong MT. I dont know why orange able to put at KKH...
The gal told me.... fri got appointment place for me... but need to inform me that Dr WOng no more go other Hospital... only go TMC only.... then i say har... MA dont have also... then she say ya dont have.....
So now see the Dr Lawernce Ang waiting time n got deliever at MA or not lor....
My hubby Prefer MA than TMC....
Cause i kanna go TMC once when i pregnant... the bill is super ex than MA.....
for the room MA is the best than TMC... nurse skill i feel MA is the best too.....
The gal told me.... fri got appointment place for me... but need to inform me that Dr WOng no more go other Hospital... only go TMC only.... then i say har... MA dont have also... then she say ya dont have.....
So now see the Dr Lawernce Ang waiting time n got deliever at MA or not lor....
My hubby Prefer MA than TMC....
Cause i kanna go TMC once when i pregnant... the bill is super ex than MA.....
for the room MA is the best than TMC... nurse skill i feel MA is the best too.....