KWXY,
i know how sad u n hubby must feel. Like me, u wont forget it n it will still hurt now n then but it will become a distant memory. I just went thru a difficult day on 12 march cos thats the supposed edd for my first angel. Me n hubby just went to the beach with my boy, released some balloons to the sky, told my boy his meimei must be happy up there. We did some prayers too n yes on that day all the memories came rushing back n crushed me. But we cry, grieve n hug n move on.
U should go get cytotec from your gynae. That can aid in total cleansing of the womb. Must make sure all is out. If not all the tissues are out, u might still need to do d&c and i dont think u would want to go thru it another time rite? Go get raspberry tea leaves from bbdustshop. Take that till your next af too. Will help to purge out all the lining etc. Ask your gynae if u might need antibiotics to avoid infection. If the pain is too much, pop some panadol or painkillers n put heat pad on your tummy. Some women might experience severe cramps. As for me, the cramps got bad like mild contraction around 4am..by then whole nite i cant sleep. At 7am i felt the need to go toilet as i felt like so much blood coming out. I sat down on my toilet bowl n my whole sac came out..about the size of half my palm. Felt just like how my boy's head came out of me when i gave birth. After the sac is out, the bleeding should visibly lighten.
A good thing is that natural mc will be faster to heal as compared to d&c. D&c will scrape the wall of the womb n there might be complications in that. Among them is on off spotting, cramps n even infection or puncture of the womb wall.
Your af should report within 4 to 6 weeks. Your gynae should be seeing u again another few times to scan n review. First review is to make sure that all is clear. Second review should be to make sure that your cycle is back to normal.
Take your time to heal ok. Dont hurry it. U should be able to ttc again after one cycle. We shall jia you together!!
