miffy2b : thank you for the encouragement.
I am currently still sick. Doc say that cough for too long already so become chronic. I have to continue using the puff for the asthma if not oxygen cut off to baby and not good.
now i worry coughing will lead to premature birth cos i cough very hard and have to wear pad. Change many thick thick pads because once cough the pee will be force out even though i visited the toilet already.
but doctor say hard cough will not cause premature birth only if we have diarrhea. so i keep my finger cross. because of all the med i take, esp the 10 bottles of cough mixtures, baby is not active at all. He is sleeping most of the time. even during the scan, i cough and cough and doctor shake, he also continue sleeping. doctor say he not active but growing and that may explain why at 28 weeks he is 1.4kg!
now i hope to quickly let him hit the 2kg. doctor say if baby is born at 2kg or less, have to put in nicu and will be very expensive. i am getting worried as i am only 28 weeks. sigh.
roxanne, no news from my boss on the maternity.
so i decide not to stress myself. i will just submit birth cert as per the link your provided and if he refuse the 16 weeks maternity leave, i will just have to quit or return to work. no choice.
i have already put baby on waiting list at a infant care centre. i called up only. they say no need to visit as its still early. ask me to call only 1 month before i intend to put baby there??? puzzled also as no deposit given, i worry after that she will tell me no space?
food catering. empire caterer i called up. he say no need to pre-book so early. after i give birth in hopsital, call them and then can arrange for delivery already. no mention of deposit. my friends want to offer to share cost of my confinement food then they won't buy stuff for baby. i thought its a good idea. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] maybe will choose the once a day meal and i only need to pay 50% and they pay the balance. the last time you mentioned neonatal essentials? good?
gilera,
my doc also say no exercise. i feel like elephant but no choice. protect baby more important. you have to take care too. same as the rest, i didn't get changing table. will change on bed. save cost and also save space.
i m in the same situation as you. i got a second hand cot, but it will only come on 31 Aug. The seller nice enough to keep till then for me but now i headache over transport cos they will not dismantle. have to carry as a whole bed. have to pay for transport. my room after putting the cot, not much space to walk. its wall,bed,cot, wall. space in between!