Actually, I think men are quite 'balanced' lah.
If handsome, maybe not so sweet.
If can earn alot of money, maybe not so sweet.
Mine is very sweet.
But: NO MONEY, NOT HANDSOME, & QUITE DUMB.
So... er... give and take lah
I dun mind the no money, not handsome and quite dumb part... as long as he is sweet
Cos I see my friends' hubbies...
The handsome ones... not very sweet (only on special occasions)...
The rich ones... only know how to buy buy buy things to make wife happy, dunno how to please the wife in terms of actions (help with housework/tabao nice food)...
So I always teach my students: Looks & money not very important. The heart (& character) most important!
Looks can change (grow old). Money can earn (ladies now all have earning power mah).