Hi Sandy,
Refer to your post in late Oct., you mentioned that your colleagues being inconsiderate and you realized you're someone who people love to bully.
Actually I have been working in my current company for more than 6 mths already but I still couldn't adapt to the environment as the people here are also not that NICE and quite cold at times. That kind of unpleasant feeling gets stronger especially when I am pregnant. I got conceived in May and asked my Section Head not to share with anybody yet as it was still unstable BUT she said it was better to let everybody knew about it so that they could take care of me. So you can see that my SH is quite bossy type of boss. Sad thing happened just a few days later...I miscarriage. End up, many of my colleagues also knew about it. I was quite affected by it as I am not close with those colleagues at all and they even knew about my miscarriage?! Okay, anyway, I got conceived again this June and reminded my SH not to tell others again. As I have expected, she secretly told a few female colleagues about my pregnancy. During these few weeks upon knowing my pregnancy, those colleagues who know about my pregnancy, never bother to ask about my condition or show any care to me, except my SH still ask about my condition once in a while. After all these incidents, I realized that we, as mtb, must stay happy and do not let other unpleasant factors affect our babies. For this pregnancy, I try my best to take things easy and stay happy although those female colleagues never show any concern or even talk to me but I just ignore them.
Sandy, they keep asking you for help because you're nice and very helpful, not because you're nice to 'bully'. We've to think positively to keep us happy wor~ [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
Paiseh for my long-winded posting.
