Piggy.. I can understand how they feel when they see their grandchild cry fiercely for milk but they think we as parent dun feel anything ma? I myself here seeing my son having flu and cough, I oso feel xin ku.. kept asking myself is it becos previously I having flu and cough den pass to him.. see him so small, cough and cough.. I oso heart pain ah.. furthermore, he lose quite a bit of weight after discharged den have to admit to hospital due to jaundice and under fed, I oso heart pain.. I cry and cry in front of my hubby but all they can say is how we know such thing will happen ah.. everything oso they say de.. so sianz..
The nose spray given is Sterimar baby nasal hygiene.. according to the PD, is to be given 1 spray per nose while he lie on his side den press abit on his nose for the plug to come out or use the suction to suck it out.. it is to help him clear his nose airway so he can breathe more properly.. I’m bringing him back to see the PD on tues evening, so by then abt 4-5 days of use so will let PD see, hopefully by then he will be much beta..
Ya, my parent oso know my temper but she will show me her attitude too den even my dad will say me too.. they simply dun understand things lo.. they jus always think they are right.. when they need help, will ask us but when we tell them things, they jus find that we are wrong etc.. was telling hubby, I really wan to go back home after confinement.. really BTH le.. hubby jus console me by telling to endure.. he know how I feel too cos he seen himself how much my parent dote on this grandson and what we say, they simply ignore and do their own ways.. if not will scold me etc etc..
Ok.. so nipple cream is safe den ok.. still worried cannot apply cos if now I need to latch him more often den I have to put on some protection if not my nipple sure sore etc.. think night time if can, I will give him FM to make him fuller so he can slp longer cos now with his blocked nose, he already not sleeping well so if becos of hunger den even cannot slp,. I think it will be tiring for him.. I think me too since I on night shift to look after him..
Voon.. thanks for ur concern but my mummy know how to say that I dun drink enough tonic la etc.. where she dun even make for me lo.. I rem the other day, u all was saying drink more soup and water to have more bm etc.. but I dare not say, I dun even get a single bowl of soup lo for dinner.. I think so far, I only drank 2-3 times of tonic soup b4 slp. Not counting 1 time of pig stomach soup which my MIL made from home and bring over to me. MIL even have to lie to say, she is here to see grandson so suan bian make soup for me cos she dun wan to offend my mummy who is doing confinement for me.. but I can see from my mummy’s face is that she is not v happy though my MIL said that. Cos she went to market that morn oso bought pig stomach, intend to make soup for me plus the whole family to drink but who know my MIL made 1st… tell u another thing hor, that pig stomach she bought that day until today, I still have not see her cooking it.. leaving it in the fridge, duno wan to wait till when lo.. really gek sim with my mummy like this.. argh…
Gerry.. I have been trying my best to ignore them le but is really gek sim lo.. furthermore they are my parent, I choosen to come back here do confinement thinking becos here is my own home so I will feel more comfortable and if anything which I dun like or wat, I can voice out easily and oso is my own mummy ma, so no matter what she will help me take care unlike I dun wan to tire my MIL out.. but who know this is hell for me.. really can’t wait to get out of here soon… U tired to latch ur girl every 1-2 hrs ah? I duno if I can do so leh.. maybe night time I give FM den day time latch him like what u say 1-2 hrs ba.. is it ok? Cos I scare by the time my boy get well, I will drop dead lo cos night time not enough slp den day time still got latch so constant.. den where got enough slp? How u manage to slp last time? Care to share??
Peach… thanks for ur concern.. I know I have to.. but my boy fall sick like this, I so xin ku but what to do leh..
Elmo.. my hubby oso same as ur hubby, the 1 ear in 1 ear out method.. sometimes when I tok to him, he oso like this.. omg.. but he oso got unhappiness with my parent but there is nothing he can do lo.. he can still go back home to have some freedom while I struck here waitng to get out of this hell…
Pink.. my supply oso same like urs.. only once or twice my ss gd.. but this afternoon after bringing my boy back from PD, from ytd night last pump duno what time to this afternoon, I only latch my boy, den come back pump out, manage to get 70ml.. was happy to see such result but hor.. my mummy see le, she jus jump to say other thing.. I was like falling from the peak to the ground.. reaching such a supply is definitely not easy for us but no encouragement yet gave me a super cold shoulder.. really sucks man! Luckily hubby still encourage me alittle..
Hippopolai.. thanks for ur concern [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] how’s little jovie getting back @ home? Terry adjusting well with mei mei @ home??
Fung fung.. ya, I understand that they are exp in certain things.. but now already change ah, they simply too trad in thinking, cannot change. BTH… but I will do what I think is right from now on, if she wan to nag more, I will jus heck care.. jus counting down to the end of confinement so I can bring my boy back to my MIL’s place where I think freedom is more.. and MIL more modern so toking to her is more easy..
Andrea.. so far, my mummy and me will bring my boy to polyclinic.. sometimes my daddy on leave or wat, he will fetch us here.. NO matter where my boy goes, I will follow de though I know I not suppose to go out during confinement but I dun care.. that time I even go down to KKH myself when my boy was admitted due to jaundice.. MY SIL was commenting my mummy shld at least follow me ma cos I still doing confinement and feeling weak, what if I faint or what.. but I jus go out lo.. take it as a time to relax myself rather than crop myself @ home.. now my boy only need to go back once a week for his jaundice check.. how much is ur boy’s jaundice level now? My boy’s last check on Monday is 130 and the doc wan it to be below 100 so wan to review on Monday again..
Gin.. thanks for ur concern : ) gonna try those method u mention on how to increase bm. since my house got so much of milo, will drink b4 and after.. but hor massage, sometimes I see once got milk coming out, I will quickly start my pump cos every single drop of milk now is very precious to me..
