Rach, ur problem is 2 kids then have problem, mine only #1 already got problem! Cannot imagine having two like u..
I also no experience of confinement, so dunno what to tell her to do what on the first day. Thought she will be very experience n know her job well. At night she hardly wake up, as I said even if wake up also pass Bb to me then back to her sleep so how will she wake up every 2 hrs to wash my pump? If I dun wash myself, I sure can't make it to pump every 2 hrs with clean n sterilized pumps loh.. Wait for her she probably only washes it in the morning when she wakes up. Only in the day when I know she is awake I will leave my used pumps in the sink for her to wash. She doesn't even know the need to make warm water for me to brush teeth n wash face in the morning, u think she cares if I touch tap water?? From day 1 I've been using tap water to brush teeth n wash face so I really think her cannot use tap water + heater to bathe is bullshit coz morning wash up she also let me use tap water, so what's the diff? I dun even have much time to take afternoon nap n she can! N see what is the time now? She's not out of bed yet! She always sleep until 8+ , sometimes 9+ then wake up n start her job! N everytime I have to remind her there is sunshine today, faster bring Bb to go sun bathe then she does it. She wun auto coz she initially told us no need sun bathe, just bathe Bb with the ang kee can help jaundice already. To me, I think it's helpless to order /scold a person to do things n make situation awkward. If a person is really good n knows her job well, she wun need u to remind her n teach her what to do. If u need to teach her what to do when all these are common sense n expected by every confinement mummies, then the person is not worth to hire. No point to say her n make things turn awful. So is only I endure another 2 more weeks n no more seeing her in future or I ask her to stop at half a month, pay her half a mth pay n ask her leave.
Oh ya, forgot to mentioned I still spotted her long hair in my veggie for 3 times!!! N when my friend came to see Bb, she nv tell us anything, just carry Bb back to room n sleep with her when me, my hb n friend were still in the living room. We still look at each other, "WTF she's doing? Didn't she sees my friend is still here admiring Bb n she just carried Bb away w/o our knowledge?" my friend also find her weird n my MIL says she doesn't seem to know her job well n is having so gd life working for me!! Her money so easy to earn!
