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pinktulip>oh no, hope you get well soon. hubby is having the sniffles now too. Rather worried he will pass it to me.
Emmie>thanks. That's what I tell myself.
Helps that hubby is v supportive. He keeps telling me worse come to worse, just rest at home and look after baby. When economy is better then find a job. But I think of the lost maternity leave, will feel sad. But well, still employed atm, so just do what I can bah.
Emmie>thanks. That's what I tell myself.
LSNTYL, welcome and congrats... Things wil work nicely..
Pinklady- Welcome too...hmmm.. if your cycle is regular, maybe you can observe your discharge, and if it is white and eggy sticky discharge on day 12, 14, 16 (base on 28days cycle), you can BD.. I have used this mtd..
Pinklady- Welcome too...hmmm.. if your cycle is regular, maybe you can observe your discharge, and if it is white and eggy sticky discharge on day 12, 14, 16 (base on 28days cycle), you can BD.. I have used this mtd..
haha lsntyl, yeah me nw 36wks le... dun wan so early la, i very scared.
next wk seeing gynae though...
hey congrats ar... have u got a gynae yet?? btw, 2x positive on test kit is confirmed preggie le.
dun worry abt ur job stability... jus let nature take its course ba... me also nt wrking since married... also bo bian, kenna preggie... no 4mths maternity leave also bo bian... after give birth le, take care of bb for few mths, hopefully can get a job...
btw, u still chatting in sept08 brides forum?
meanwhile you take care ok! let me knw if you need gynae referral.
or anything regarding pregnancy.
hey congrats ar... have u got a gynae yet?? btw, 2x positive on test kit is confirmed preggie le.
dun worry abt ur job stability... jus let nature take its course ba... me also nt wrking since married... also bo bian, kenna preggie... no 4mths maternity leave also bo bian... after give birth le, take care of bb for few mths, hopefully can get a job...
btw, u still chatting in sept08 brides forum?
meanwhile you take care ok! let me knw if you need gynae referral.
Hello ladies...
Today busy day... didn't really come in to reply posts. Wah, so many posts to read. TTC threads are always very exciting... usually quite fast moving also.
zhuzhu - fingers crossed for you... As long as AF don't report, still got hope that may get BFP!!!
Redtea - you going HK? I making two trips - one in June, and one in July... also scared scared abit. Some more my 3 kids in tow. But never mind, go in faith. Haha. At the most, in the bus to M'sia, on the plane to Oz, make them wear mask lor. See how.
Yah, preggers the appetite all one kind. It's one of the surefire ways to tell when I preggers. When I start to eat things I hate, and hate things I love.
LeeTai - how far along are you now?
Emmie - yeah, we do. Last time, first got married, only want 2. Then baby bonus all that came along, so say, OK, 3. Now extend to 4, so 4 lor. Haha. Was being practical. Last time like children, but want to have more is SUPER EX - cos no baby bonus, no Edusave even. Now OK lah.
You had difficult pregnancies? So far mine all OK - except my #3 first trimester gave me a 38 degree fever for almost 2 months. Cannot go work... kena hospitalised and all... so silly. In the end, when enter 2nd trimester, then the fever disappear. #3 was my only c-sec also. So I'm hoping if have #4, can still do VBAC. My #3 spoil my record only. haha. Hers is the only one I use everything - epidural, c-sec. First two only use gas. Haha.
LC - that day at my gynae, I heard this lady being given DHA... is that the trend now? Last time, preggers only take Folic Acid, Obimin and Calcium... never heard of taking anything else one. Pregnant can bu also ah? Now I taking Folic already, and Vitamin B and C, just to boost immunity. Been sick for the last 3 weeks or so... two bouts of flu back to back. Scared affect chances of conceiving lah.
Amby - how far along are you? First two my MIL take care. But #3 had CN. Now on hindsight, CN much better. Haha. So #4 definitely hiring CN. Hopefully can get. I also plan to put #4 in infantcare at 12mths. Stay home will be bored cos I still gotta take care of hw for p-sch kids. But that's our plan lah. Last time #3 go infantcare, better than stay at MIL's, cos baby kena watch a lot of TV, very little stimulation.
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Today busy day... didn't really come in to reply posts. Wah, so many posts to read. TTC threads are always very exciting... usually quite fast moving also.
zhuzhu - fingers crossed for you... As long as AF don't report, still got hope that may get BFP!!!
Redtea - you going HK? I making two trips - one in June, and one in July... also scared scared abit. Some more my 3 kids in tow. But never mind, go in faith. Haha. At the most, in the bus to M'sia, on the plane to Oz, make them wear mask lor. See how.
Yah, preggers the appetite all one kind. It's one of the surefire ways to tell when I preggers. When I start to eat things I hate, and hate things I love.
LeeTai - how far along are you now?
Emmie - yeah, we do. Last time, first got married, only want 2. Then baby bonus all that came along, so say, OK, 3. Now extend to 4, so 4 lor. Haha. Was being practical. Last time like children, but want to have more is SUPER EX - cos no baby bonus, no Edusave even. Now OK lah.
You had difficult pregnancies? So far mine all OK - except my #3 first trimester gave me a 38 degree fever for almost 2 months. Cannot go work... kena hospitalised and all... so silly. In the end, when enter 2nd trimester, then the fever disappear. #3 was my only c-sec also. So I'm hoping if have #4, can still do VBAC. My #3 spoil my record only. haha. Hers is the only one I use everything - epidural, c-sec. First two only use gas. Haha.
LC - that day at my gynae, I heard this lady being given DHA... is that the trend now? Last time, preggers only take Folic Acid, Obimin and Calcium... never heard of taking anything else one. Pregnant can bu also ah? Now I taking Folic already, and Vitamin B and C, just to boost immunity. Been sick for the last 3 weeks or so... two bouts of flu back to back. Scared affect chances of conceiving lah.
Amby - how far along are you? First two my MIL take care. But #3 had CN. Now on hindsight, CN much better. Haha. So #4 definitely hiring CN. Hopefully can get. I also plan to put #4 in infantcare at 12mths. Stay home will be bored cos I still gotta take care of hw for p-sch kids. But that's our plan lah. Last time #3 go infantcare, better than stay at MIL's, cos baby kena watch a lot of TV, very little stimulation.
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Chinese Gender prediction - haha... for me, that one only work for two of my 3 kids. My #3 supposed to be boy, but is girl. And I myself was supposed to be a boy, but became girl. haha. But according to it, it this time BFP, I'll get a boy. Hopefully lah. LOL.
Hi pinklady - welcome! Haha, you very cute leh... test water. But with each child hor, it is different. So, can't say if first kid is handful, 2nd kid will be. My #3 is very very very easygoing. From very young sleep thru the night. Also very gd concentration span. Might be becos watch very little TV from small, cos go infantcare then childcare. So far, she's my smartest kid.
lsntyl - congrats on the BFP. Don't worry to much if you can... no good for baby. Try to keep calm and happy... so that your baby will be also.
aiyoh, pinktulip... you and me both. May we both get well miraculously overnight!
Aiyoh, today I was looking at the adverts for Robinson's sale... so many good deals... wish I already got BFP can buy stuff... but to think of buying so many brand new things for one last baby, like also so sayang.... if really have BFP, dunno how I'll resist temptation to buy things for baby man...
Some more now, compared to 10 years ago, got so mnay more interesting gadgets... so fun. And the maternity clothes are so much better now also!!! Last time only got those aunty aunty type... now quite hip... things have changed so much since my first baby...
Hi pinklady - welcome! Haha, you very cute leh... test water. But with each child hor, it is different. So, can't say if first kid is handful, 2nd kid will be. My #3 is very very very easygoing. From very young sleep thru the night. Also very gd concentration span. Might be becos watch very little TV from small, cos go infantcare then childcare. So far, she's my smartest kid.
lsntyl - congrats on the BFP. Don't worry to much if you can... no good for baby. Try to keep calm and happy... so that your baby will be also.
aiyoh, pinktulip... you and me both. May we both get well miraculously overnight!
Aiyoh, today I was looking at the adverts for Robinson's sale... so many good deals... wish I already got BFP can buy stuff... but to think of buying so many brand new things for one last baby, like also so sayang.... if really have BFP, dunno how I'll resist temptation to buy things for baby man...
Some more now, compared to 10 years ago, got so mnay more interesting gadgets... so fun. And the maternity clothes are so much better now also!!! Last time only got those aunty aunty type... now quite hip... things have changed so much since my first baby...
dorie: I think so got chance if AF is not here! haha
I gg cruise on Sunday but dun know AF will come anot den I've to pack a huge bag of pad and pray it's either late or dun ever come cos I wanna go swimming with my girl cos I just spent $100 buying a new swimwear cos I can't wear my old bikini ones..
tummy now full of stretchmarks becos of my girl. She overstretched it and got kangeroo pouch.. so must buy new swimwear hide abit.. somemore must buy safety swimwear so my girl wun make me expose in public!!
Such dilemma hor!
I gg cruise on Sunday but dun know AF will come anot den I've to pack a huge bag of pad and pray it's either late or dun ever come cos I wanna go swimming with my girl cos I just spent $100 buying a new swimwear cos I can't wear my old bikini ones..
tummy now full of stretchmarks becos of my girl. She overstretched it and got kangeroo pouch.. so must buy new swimwear hide abit.. somemore must buy safety swimwear so my girl wun make me expose in public!!
Such dilemma hor!
pinkie the most accurate way for me is to look at ur cervical mucus.when it is translucent and is stretchable then that is a good time to try.
hi jgal nice to see u here
zhu zhu the sale worth going? hows the queue like huh?
lsntyl congrats.
sigh my boy came down wif fever for three days liao. yesterdae after eating paracetamol can still hit a high of 39. so worried. according to the doc is the same virus tat cause HFMD but in my boy case oni throat infection. hope he gets well soon
hi jgal nice to see u here
zhu zhu the sale worth going? hows the queue like huh?
lsntyl congrats.
sigh my boy came down wif fever for three days liao. yesterdae after eating paracetamol can still hit a high of 39. so worried. according to the doc is the same virus tat cause HFMD but in my boy case oni throat infection. hope he gets well soon
Net>I like having my own $. Don't want to always ask hubby for $ leh. Anyway, see how bah. Take things one step at a time. I'll prob be seeing Dr Benjamin Tham at KK. 1st appt next Wed. Who are you seeing and where are you delivering? Sept brides thread v quiet now although I sometimes still chat with the other brides on msn.
dorie>sorry, what is BFP? Still trying to learn mummy acronyms.
mushloom>thanks.
dorie>sorry, what is BFP? Still trying to learn mummy acronyms.
mushloom>thanks.
dorie, not exactly difficult but i had terrible MS during my first pregnancy and subsequently had horrible gastric attacks til almost 3rd trimester. Now 2nd pregnancy, nausea started and I do feel faint at times... feel thirsty but just can't drink water. sigh...
redtea, i just went to see gynae today. at the scan, realise the foetus is still too small. Pushed back my EDD to 13 Jan. Hopefully the baby will come out earlier though. Otherwise i have to share a birthday and also cut short on confinement.
Initially thought I'm already approaching week 8. Now kanna pushed back to week6 and 3 days. sian ah!
redtea, i just went to see gynae today. at the scan, realise the foetus is still too small. Pushed back my EDD to 13 Jan. Hopefully the baby will come out earlier though. Otherwise i have to share a birthday and also cut short on confinement.
Hi, can i check with those mummies of 1 or 2 or 3, my boy is having lots of phelgm, coughing a little and running nose and western med dun seem to help.. any good remedy?
Hi, Emmie
can EDD be pushed back one ma? I tot it depends on the LMP and the cycle?
Hi, DNA
My nanny ok to take me.. Phew.. and she is charging me back the same rate.. veryr nice of her.. at least one thing off the list..Sorry, you have to find another referral if you are still engaging one.
Hi, Emmie
can EDD be pushed back one ma? I tot it depends on the LMP and the cycle?
Hi, DNA
My nanny ok to take me.. Phew.. and she is charging me back the same rate.. veryr nice of her.. at least one thing off the list..Sorry, you have to find another referral if you are still engaging one.
bitbit1823
Member
Dear All,
I am also having my first bb in Jan. Just some back from my gynae visit. Manage to c my bb heartbeat. Currently at week 7 & 2 days. EDD now is 7 Jan. Got alot of vitamin to eat.
I am also having my first bb in Jan. Just some back from my gynae visit. Manage to c my bb heartbeat. Currently at week 7 & 2 days. EDD now is 7 Jan. Got alot of vitamin to eat.
ni_no_kodomo
New Member
LC
see?! you have everything planned out now. CL is coming back, so you dun have to worry.
congrats!
bitbit
welcome
see?! you have everything planned out now. CL is coming back, so you dun have to worry.
bitbit
welcome
LC... my girl is also very prone to long time phlegmy cough. She is the only one in my house don't respond to western meds. But she does well with the Eu Yan Sang powder satchets. They come in these rose-pink boxes... for children, take half satchet three times a day. The people, if they are true sales people, will try to sell you the bottle one, more ex, also not so nice to take (bitter)... but for my girl, the powder one works well. She faithfully take a few days (usually less than one week) can see obvious improvement, or will clear. Hope that helps.
Emmie - you also Jan baby ah? I also!!! heehee. But yah, don't wish for baby to share birthdate with anyone - like it to be special. Don't worry, sometimes, early pregnancy, the EDD move back and forth - i kena before. In the end, also move back quite close to original one.
LC - esp if the AF not regular, or ovulation not regular, the EDD can be wrong because the cycle length is not the usual 28 days mah. My cycles used to be around 30-31 days... so EDD always early by a few days. Now cycles haywire... EDD also not very accurate... must based on scan. But based on size of baby also not very accurate, cos different babies different sized. Haha. Dunno lah.
Emmie - you also Jan baby ah? I also!!! heehee. But yah, don't wish for baby to share birthdate with anyone - like it to be special. Don't worry, sometimes, early pregnancy, the EDD move back and forth - i kena before. In the end, also move back quite close to original one.
LC - esp if the AF not regular, or ovulation not regular, the EDD can be wrong because the cycle length is not the usual 28 days mah. My cycles used to be around 30-31 days... so EDD always early by a few days. Now cycles haywire... EDD also not very accurate... must based on scan. But based on size of baby also not very accurate, cos different babies different sized. Haha. Dunno lah.
hi bitbit - wah, so exciting... congrats... jan 7. that's a nice birthdate to have! I have always wanted babies earlier in the year, but unfortunately, my two girls are nov babies. very lugi... way behind everyone else. People in their class already 7yr old when start p1, my girl only 6y1m... so poorthing. Haha. But good thing they are girls, so at least still can catch up with the boys. Boys year end very poorthing also. behind everyone else... sigh.
bitbit1823
Member
Dear dorie,
I hope bb can stay till jan 7 then come out. I heard that first pregnancy can be early. My gynae even told me might be 1 Jan also possible.
I hope bb can stay till jan 7 then come out. I heard that first pregnancy can be early. My gynae even told me might be 1 Jan also possible.
bethel
Member
Wow more Jan MTBs..congrats to all those who got BFPs!
Emmie - so did u go to Dr Yvonne Chan? I was there at her clinic today.
I went to her to double confirm that my intermenstrual spotting was not a cause for concern. apparently, ovulation causes spotting as well. just tt i never experienced it b4.
and i learnt something new today. AF will come 14 days after Ovulation day. So if it doesn't come on tat 14th day, that means u r pregnant! Of coz, this is if u are very sure which day is O day. Ok this might not be new to mummies here but me first time TTC so abit ignorant still.
Emmie - so did u go to Dr Yvonne Chan? I was there at her clinic today.
I went to her to double confirm that my intermenstrual spotting was not a cause for concern. apparently, ovulation causes spotting as well. just tt i never experienced it b4.
and i learnt something new today. AF will come 14 days after Ovulation day. So if it doesn't come on tat 14th day, that means u r pregnant! Of coz, this is if u are very sure which day is O day. Ok this might not be new to mummies here but me first time TTC so abit ignorant still.
this mornin i went toliet notice i got light redish discharge on my panty.. Then after urine i wipe.. Every wipe oso got the light redish stain.. N one of it got red cot stain..
I went to get new panty n liner.. Go back toliet to check again.. The wipe still come with light red stain..
Wat happen.. M i experiencing mischarage liao.. Wat sld i do now?
Hubby went for his lesson.. Call my mum.. She ask me go gp since gyne not open tdy..
Could it b i miss my duphaston tab tats y? Or i carry my #01 too much...
I m so sad now.. Or sld i go straight to mtA?
I went to get new panty n liner.. Go back toliet to check again.. The wipe still come with light red stain..
Wat happen.. M i experiencing mischarage liao.. Wat sld i do now?
Hubby went for his lesson.. Call my mum.. She ask me go gp since gyne not open tdy..
Could it b i miss my duphaston tab tats y? Or i carry my #01 too much...
I m so sad now.. Or sld i go straight to mtA?
LC, apparently my last cycle was longer... so that's why it's not as far along as i thought initially.
dorie, yup, I'm a Jan baby. Really don't wish to share a birthday cos it's the only day I have the 'right' to be selfish. I do hope the EDD will change again. If not, the chance really high as my son was full-term, born 1 day after his EDD.
Bethel, no...I saw a gynae in shanghai. Will probably book an appt with her when we go back for 2 weeks break in Jul.
how is she like?
cladi, oh no. That's scary. i think u shd go straight to Mt A. At least able to scan. But must have someone to go with you. take care!
welcome bitbit! i also thought first babies will come early. apparently not so. I have friends who delivered their kids 1 week after edd. baby too comfy liao.
dorie, yup, I'm a Jan baby. Really don't wish to share a birthday cos it's the only day I have the 'right' to be selfish.
I do hope the EDD will change again. If not, the chance really high as my son was full-term, born 1 day after his EDD. Bethel, no...I saw a gynae in shanghai. Will probably book an appt with her when we go back for 2 weeks break in Jul.
cladi, oh no. That's scary. i think u shd go straight to Mt A. At least able to scan. But must have someone to go with you. take care!
welcome bitbit! i also thought first babies will come early. apparently not so. I have friends who delivered their kids 1 week after edd. baby too comfy liao.
Cladi,
Call your gynae on his/her emergency number, he will be able to advise you to be admitted or to increase your duphaston dosage.
The last time I had it, I called my gynae and he increase my dosage to 3 tablet per day instead of the original 1 per day. And lots of bed rest. Don't get out of the bed unnecessarily and rise your legs by resting on them on pillow. Stay there till you are able to get your next appointment with your gynae.
Call your gynae on his/her emergency number, he will be able to advise you to be admitted or to increase your duphaston dosage.
The last time I had it, I called my gynae and he increase my dosage to 3 tablet per day instead of the original 1 per day. And lots of bed rest. Don't get out of the bed unnecessarily and rise your legs by resting on them on pillow. Stay there till you are able to get your next appointment with your gynae.
thanks thanks ladies..
Reali appreciate all ur help n advice..
I jus lying on the bed now.. Observe.. Now discharges has reduce to light pink.. Bit only.. But i going black out when i go to kitchen for a drink n to toliet.. Oso feel like vomiting so badly..
I m already on 3tab per day for duphaston le.. Didn call up gyne oso.. M i too kan cheong? But when i c the cot blood.. I reali feel so bad..
Hubby insist tml go gyne le.. Dun wait liao.. Hope everything is fine.. I read tat.. If got heartbeat.. I m quite safe liao rite.. Pray hard i will see tat tml..
Keep telling my bb not to leave mummy..
Reali appreciate all ur help n advice..
I jus lying on the bed now.. Observe.. Now discharges has reduce to light pink.. Bit only.. But i going black out when i go to kitchen for a drink n to toliet.. Oso feel like vomiting so badly..
I m already on 3tab per day for duphaston le.. Didn call up gyne oso.. M i too kan cheong? But when i c the cot blood.. I reali feel so bad..
Hubby insist tml go gyne le.. Dun wait liao.. Hope everything is fine.. I read tat.. If got heartbeat.. I m quite safe liao rite.. Pray hard i will see tat tml..
Keep telling my bb not to leave mummy..
hi ladies,
a bit of time since i last login...menses suppose to come today, but i kan chiong go buy p-kit to test...haha. there is a faint line!! *yippee!* but i a bit unsure leh...i thinking maybe wait till 1 more week buy another p-kit to confirm again.
who are those BFP now? maybe we shld start compiling a list.
a bit of time since i last login...menses suppose to come today, but i kan chiong go buy p-kit to test...haha. there is a faint line!! *yippee!* but i a bit unsure leh...i thinking maybe wait till 1 more week buy another p-kit to confirm again.
who are those BFP now? maybe we shld start compiling a list.
cladi - I agree with everyone else... it's good for you to go to the emergency ward of your gynae's hospital... they can contact him, can make decisions. The worrying is no good for you... take care... *fingers crossed* for you....
dg - haha, congrats on the faint line... actually hor, the hcg levels double everyday... so if you want, another 3-4 days later can test again liao... haha. Should be much darker...
I'm still TTCing - CD21 only today. Sigh. waiting waiting.
LC, how's your boy's cough?
dg - haha, congrats on the faint line... actually hor, the hcg levels double everyday... so if you want, another 3-4 days later can test again liao... haha. Should be much darker...
I'm still TTCing - CD21 only today. Sigh. waiting waiting.
LC, how's your boy's cough?
ni_no_kodomo
New Member
anyone heard from cladi?
hope she has gone to the hosp to check by now
hope she has gone to the hosp to check by now
freshpoison77
New Member
Hi mummies,
Can I join? I've started TTC-ing for my #2 once my #1 turned 2 last yr but so far no news yet. A bit disappointed every mth. It was the same when I was TTC-ing for my #1, we tried for 2yrs b4 striking. Was on the verge of giving up already. That's why we were a bit hesitant to have #2 cos din wanna go thru the roller-coaster again but felt guilty that my boy seems quite lonely.
Can I join? I've started TTC-ing for my #2 once my #1 turned 2 last yr but so far no news yet. A bit disappointed every mth. It was the same when I was TTC-ing for my #1, we tried for 2yrs b4 striking. Was on the verge of giving up already. That's why we were a bit hesitant to have #2 cos din wanna go thru the roller-coaster again but felt guilty that my boy seems quite lonely.
freshpoison77
New Member
I'm only CD19 so long way more before I can test. My cycle used to be regular but now it's all haywired again. It was the same when I was trying for my #1. I think my body likes to play pranks...
Hi FP77 - welcome... yah, like you, my cycle very haywire also.
Are you on any medication to deal with the haywire-ness? My system haywire after my m/c in 2003 - before that like clockwork one. So to conceive my JD, I went on Clomid. Now hoping for another boy, and last kid, so went on Clomid again. Clomid helps me to ovulate regularly. I am going to be very lao already, so this 3 rounds, if Clomid still don't strike, then we close shop liao. next yr, my #1 10yo liao. Don't want already...
Are you on any medication to deal with the haywire-ness? My system haywire after my m/c in 2003 - before that like clockwork one. So to conceive my JD, I went on Clomid. Now hoping for another boy, and last kid, so went on Clomid again. Clomid helps me to ovulate regularly. I am going to be very lao already, so this 3 rounds, if Clomid still don't strike, then we close shop liao. next yr, my #1 10yo liao. Don't want already...
winniebear
Member
Hi dorie
my AF not here yet ... today is CD32.
Dont know will strike or not, if so will be my 3rd baby
my AF not here yet ... today is CD32.
Dont know will strike or not, if so will be my 3rd baby
winniebear
Member
Hope everything is well for cladi
