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thank thank ladies.. Sorry to make u worry..

I m much better after yty whole day resting on bed.. Will b going to c my gyne this afternn.. Now still got bit discharge but not so heavy like yty..

Will update here again after i c my gyne.. Hope everythin is fine for my bb..

Thanks
 


Morning, Ladies..

Only managed to log in today.. Yesterday was a bad day for me, hubby went out to watch soccer at abt 10plus at night and I had to manage my boy to sleep after coming back from In laws and my mum's place.. just tot everything is ok, my boy coughed hard and the phelgm is bad bad bad, next thing he vomitted in his sleep! goodness! all the porridge, salmone etc came out.. Need to clean him, clear the mess.. until 3plus then sleep, and my hubby came back shortly after that.. Dun see that he felt any guilt. OMG!


Hi, Cladi

got a shock to see your posting.. it could be just spotting.. I have a friend who has spotting for the whole pregnancy.. You rest well on bed and dun do anything.. take care and do update us..

Hi, Dorie

I read somewhere DHA or fish oil is only for preggie who are over 3mth or so.. cannot take too early. I guess for the early preggies, Folic is still teh best and maybe some chicken essence to boost the preggie's energy level, but maybe once a week or something like that..

I think I know what you are referring to at EYS. I am giving my boy the small bottle one, very expensive.. call Hxx Dxx powder right? but dun seem to work leh.. and his poo (after taking that small bottle powder) turned to be black. and when I asked the person at EYS, they claimed it is tonix removal from stool cos babies can't cough out the phelgm.. not sure how true. I am only to buy two more bottles and let him try. If not, I will have to bring him to PD again and get scolded (cos the PD felt that I always delayed bringing my boy to him but I dun like to cos I feel western medicine is very "san" not very helpful for my boy, except for the antibodies..)..
 
good morning to all!

cladi : hope the check later will turn out fine! take care!

LC : if your boy has been coughing for a while, then i think better to see PD. IMHO, western med is good for quick fix, and when he is better, then use chinese med for long-term improvement. For young children, i'm worried that a prolong cough may lead to bronchitis (sp?), so I'm quite kiasu - will quickly bring kid to let the doc listen to his lungs i.e. whether clear or not. When he is sleeping, try and put your ear to his chest or back - if you can hear wheezing sound, then it can be rather bad. The child may require neubiliser to clear his lungs.

are you at home resting today? have a good rest! re husband, sigh! what to do? men can be quite insensitive at times! do bear with it &amp; let go!
 
cladi, do keep us update, ya? You'll be alight de.

gals, my ms start to visit me over the weekend, i feeling so terrible now, ms make my stomach even more bloated now..
 
hi gals,

haven't been able to login very much lately. Soo many postings to read!
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My MS has been quite awful, i can't sit at the computer for long as it makes me feel sick (perhaps the posture). So I can't surf the net as much as I love to
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cladi - take good care of yourself. Let us know what happens after yr gynea check up.
 
Hi, Yang

I know what you mean.. I am planning to finish up the two bottle of the EYS powder then will bring him to see the PD on Thurs ( i am on half day leave on that day).. I heard abt the neubiliser thingy from my colleague. will ask the PD on Thurs. will also hear if there is any whizzing sound in him.. hopefully dun have. finger crossed..

I am not on resting at home (how I wish I can..) hope my boy will have a good sleep so that I can have a good night rest tonight too.
 
cladi - how r u now? can understand how worried u were . tk care and go slow in watever u do. rest more too! Hope ur gynae chk up will assure u tt everything's alright!

LC - i used to hv prolonged cough too. i can cough for a month before i start recovering. doc's medication or EYS powder also don't work for me. recently, i took cordyceps (also called dong chong xia cao (冬虫夏草) in chinese). it helped to strengthen lungs so now i dun cough so easily and if i start coughing it wun be prolonged. it's expensive but good. but u need to chk with chinese medical hall if kids can tk it. I can also recommend u a GP who is good at treating coughs. Alot of patients who see him are for coughs. Let me know if u need the contact.
 
Emmie - oh ya i forgot u are still in Shanghai...yvonne chan is very professional. She explains things clearly, can be quite cool n serious at times but also humorous sometimes..
I tink she's very experienced so i feel comfortable with her. Her nurses also make u feel at ease. good thing is it's easy to get an appmt. dun hv to wait for weeks. but waiting time at the clinic can go up to 1 hr.

Lee Tai - gd luck! no sign of AF is a good sign!

and congrats DG!!
 
hi dorie,
Nope, not on any medication. Din take any also during my #1, juz try &amp; try &amp; try till almost give up then strike.
Wont b taking any medication also this time round, will prob try &amp; try &amp; try like last time... haha Dun hav then too bad lor.
 
Morning Ladies,
Cladi - hope you are ok, take a good rest...
I went to my gynea on Friday, my BB is fine and I am into 9wks already. When doing the V scan, the baby leg and shoulder already form. My EDD is 1/Jan, so I think it should be a Dec BB.
 
My boy has also been coughing for a while liao but does not have any wheezing so the doc say very common esp if he is attending nursery/childcare.
 
<font color="aa00aa">cladi
Hope all is fine, gal. I read before that during implantation of the egg to the uterus, there can be slight pinkish discharge. I got it too last month. However, I really hope all will be fine for you. Do update us soon
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LC

hope yr boy will be fine. Mine also suffers from bad cough on and off. My PD is a cough specialist and usually recommend we use nebuliser.. so we eventually bought one as my boy is prone to such infections. Can even do the nebuliser when he first start coughing in the night, sometimes he will improve so no need to see PD.

Hope your boy will get better soon. Cough is no joke, can detoriate quite fast.
 
Thanks, Bethel. Have no access from office so will check at home tonight..


Hi, DNA
Market rate should be 1.8k ba for Malaysian confinment nanny, Singapore one might be ard 2K or more. Indonesian nannies abt 1.6k. These rates are before arrival and departure ang bao.


Hi, Lil-gisele
Now I am starting to worry after seeing yang and your posting.. guess I will bring my boy to see doc before Thurs.
 
mummies
my ms got from bad to worse
today whole day i'm lying in bed trying not to puke. then got so hungry but no energy to go buy food, not to mention cooking instant noodles for myself. scared i faint downstairs, plus weather is so hot. i've been trying to change into my attire to go out since 12nn but unsuccessful. always feel nauseous the moment i stand up and try to do sth...

really miserable. aiyo, sometimes i ask myself why i go through so much sufferings
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miserable.. and hungry
 
re: confinement nanny
DNA, i'm still undecided whether to get one. always hear different stories till i feel quite scared. but if dun get, scared i work myself to death, esp if ganna Csection
 
Hi baby number two, you do take care. Get your hubby to buy some bread to standby at home. Maybe you can call Mac or Pizza hut for delivery. I ask my gynae why my MS is bad this time as compared, she told me that it is because I am getting older....sad...
re: confinement nanny
Ya I have no choice too but to get one as I have a #1 to take care as well. I dun think I can manage without one.
 
b#2 - i dunno whether this will work for you. But hunger actually makes the nausea worse. It might be helpful to put some plain crackers (sota piah) next to your bed, so that when you wake up, you can nibble on the crackers, and drink some water (some people say things like coke help them) and fill up your tummy abit before you start to move around. Also, if you are nauseous, try eating many small meals throughout the day, instead of 3 big meals. If not, the more hungry you get, the more ms you will feel, then the more you don't feel like eating, and the ms just gets worse.

look on the bright side... more ms can mean that baby is growing big and strong and producing a lot of hormones to grow...
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dna
i have lots of biscuits stored at home, but dun feel like eating
gave up buying bread cos they always expire before i get to eat them. same for milk. makes me puke

my #1 goes to CC, so i'm hoping to be a superhero and not hire CL. unless i get v good recommendations.

ya, we are getting older. plus this time round, there's #1 to look after so naturally more tired.
 
actually it is gd to have confinement lady. esp if it is ur first. cos can get their advice on baby and also u really get to rest and just take care of baby. the rest like cooking n housework can leave it to them.

baby no 2 u tried eating a bit of those salty biscuits / crackers? i heard it will make u feel better n not so sick.
 
dorie
thanks. you are so sweet. ya, i have the sota piah next to me. ate a few pieces just now before i managed to post anything
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then i ate abit of bak chang. just so i can have some energy and not faint at home

i really peifu those mummies still working man. all i do is lie in bed whole day and i already feel like dying

my first preg also suffered alot. but this time round very soon. as soon as 4weeks plus. that's when i suspect i was preg
 
mushloom
thanks. i ate liao. the prob with eating is scared i really puke and can't run fast enuf to the toilet

ya, CL if good really helpful. but scared get the lao-ya ones then will be the death of you. plus some of them have bad habits with babies, so can be a headache undoing the damage when they leave

haha... i sound like a control freak hor
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Hi baby number two, I agree with you. The CL for my #1, like to carry him until he like to carry so much and I suffer after she left....That is why not keen to look for her again.
 
dna
ya, i dun like to deal with damages
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my #1 was alright cos i was taking care of her myself (cos mil also got bad habits so i more xin ku, rather do things myself).
hope #2 also lidat. else really jialat to undo the bad habits

plus some CL are bad cooks lah, steal things lah.... i dun wanna deal with this. that's why most likely not getting unless i get good recommendations. scared i work myself to death though..
 
hello all

congrats to those w BFP

i m trying for #2 for a while but always not successful....hope to join in your chat :)
 
cladi, glad to hear u r ok! keep us updated ya, take care.
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btw ladies, anyone of u have contact of gynae near sengkang? and deliver in Mt A? dun mind male. my gynae who delivered my boy moved to another country to practise liao, so now hav to start looking around for another.
 
i m back.. I m back.. Can c bb heartbeat liao
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so happy..

Dr was doing his scan.. Then he kept quiet.. I see nothing but only dark round image on the screen.. Then he ask my hubby to come over to c.. In my mind i tot.. Siao liao.. Is he going to tell us some bad news.. Is it my bb no heartbeat.. Then he zoom in the scan.. Point to one dot.. Ask my hubby did he c this.. Tats bb heartbeat.. I was so happy...

Dr ask me wan a jab.. I rmb reading tat jab can b painful rite.. So i told him can avoid best la.. So he ask me to increase duphaston to 2tab each time n take 3time per day.. Ask me to rest rest rest...

Now got to stay in bed rest n read my notes liao
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got excuse to fall aslp anytime lo.. He he..

Dumbger
I m seein dr adrian woodworth at sengkang.. N i deliver my #1 go mtA too.. Mayb u can consider him
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thanks bluey

Will try to rest as much as i could
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but still must study for exam... Reali hope to clear them this round.. Hai.. Pray tat bb stay guai guai n pass 1st trimester soon lo.. Til now hor.. I still duno how many m i preg leh.. Haha
 
bb#2
He didn mention y leh.. Jus keep telling me rest ah.. I went to ask him is it cos i hold my bladder.. I alway try to hold it til mornin then go toliet.. He say not the cos.. Then ask me y hold.. Wan go toliet jus go la... Sound i very silly hor.. Haha.. But if i wake up go toliet.. I will wake my dog, my hubby n shawn up.. Dog will start to bark.. Hubby must attend to the dog.. Shawn will wake up by dog.. U see.. Haha.. Tats y..
 
tzac
Good tat u not kan cheong liao.. Can relax n enjoy bd ma.. Higher chance ah
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Bb#2
No la.. Dog slp in kitchen.. I must go out use common toliet ma.. Then he will hear me.. I stay with inlaw.. They slp in masterroom.. Hubby, i n shawn slp in common room lo...
 
bb#2
Hubby n i oso discussing how to put our bb.. Our common room is very small.. Partly due to the huge masterroom.. Taken up lots of space liao.. Push my queen size bed to the side.. Can put one single mattress on the floor.. Tats it.. No where to walk.. Must walk on the mattress liao.. Can u imagine how small.. Hai
 
dna
Thanks
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the last round scan show tat my edd is 16jan.. Base on sac size.. Gyne didn ask abt my lmp ... We oso didn discuss abt edd.. I oso didn ask how many preg m i now.. Blur rite.. Haha.. I was wait for my medicine jus now.. Then happen to over heard a lady say wana go back in to ask dr how many wk preg is she now.. Then i rmb.. I oso duno wo.. But i too shy to go back ask le.. Will ask again next round ba.. Hee
 

Cladi,
My EDD is 1/Jan and my bb turn 1wk older on every Friday. So this week I am into wk 9. I will try my best to ren till Jan as I want a Jan bb. I will be doing my Oscar scan in 3 and half week time. Since your EDD is 16/Jan, you should be wk 7.
 

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