bb dust - if you're the one paying for the CL, then what's her concern?? not as if the CL won't clean the house blah blah blah... not happy with the CL, still can "scold" her wor...if it's own relatives, how to open mouth to "say" the person...
Alison - it's not fierce or not...BIL wanna give MIL or not that's his problem..i'm not him MIL...he's staying in my house, using my water, watching my TV, using my internet, using my electricity...i'm his SIL, not obligated to take care of him at all... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] this is what i told dh...my responsibility is oni my MIL, not the rest...the rest can survive or not it's none of my biz...if i wanna be hard hearted, i can just bring my MIL over, the rest go and find food and lodging on their own...
i still buay tahan that MIL told BIL dun get married so early cos got no money to buy a house of their own...but BIL still die die wanna get married...