Jeanpink, I can understand how ur hubby feels....besides dun have job, he does not have anymore confidence...I koe, coz I feel tis way when I din have a job.
A job besides providing financial security, oso boosts the self confidence.
When I go out, I seem to feel like an outcast. Many atimes, I broke down in front of my dh...after wic, he slowly began to understand me more.
He told me, I m prob not the onli one who is not working now...there r so many out there in the streets.
Of coz, need to do alot of brain tuning, wic onli he himself can do.
During tis time, I suggest u give him abit of breathing space, more tender loving care & support.
After tt, he can either look for another job or decide wat he wan to do in his life.