Esquare - wow yours is indeed another little sumo! hahaha... my girl also sometimes wake very often at night, especially second half of the night towards dawn. can be 1-2 hours! cause she feeds til she dozes off, and when i tried to wake her to drink some more, she wouldn't...
Mrs Ang - don't feel paiseh... me too, i struggled so muchwrt sleep isssues with my no.1... i felt so lousy, like i was a bad mommy, cannot even do sleep training properly. but really, every baby is different, so they hae different patterns.some babies are very good sleepers, some are more alert and active, some feed very well. my issue with no.2 also the same. so sometimes she sleeps yaolan, sometimes she sleeps in the cot or mattress, sometimes she falls asleep on her own...
nighttime it's family bed - all 4 of us!
no golden rule really, u can try the different methods to c what works... but for me, right from the start, i told myself, no CIO, cause really cannot bear for my kid to CIO too long. heart pain... hahah.. so gotta suffer a little lor. but it's a really beautiful feeling to have the two little ones on my left and right at night. guess it's gain some lose some...
Blue - mine's tunirng 3 months on the 29th...oh wait, there's no 29th this month.. heh.. ya but almost 3 months, still feeding 2.5-3 hours ... although occasionally 4 hours. same loh, at night she'll feed one breast in a drowsy state, then dun want liao...