Clover:
Thanks! My MIL comes during lunch to help me wither carry #2 or help feed #1, depending on situation. If not, I won't get to eat my lunch. MIL not here during dinner, just as well, need some privacy too. Hubby helps out, very hands on too with both kids. Most of the time, he'll take #1 and I'll take #2, if not, cannot wrap up the day. ;p
Thank God I got PT cleaner coming once a week or my house will become pig sty!
Regarding Beco, I see I see.... Saw on the website the dimensions. Now scratching head again. Difference in weight between the 2 is only abt 130grams.
Butterfly2: body 13" wide x 16" tall
Gemini: body 13" wide x 18.5" tall with head rest up, 14" tall with headrest folded
Maybe Gemini is thinner?