in laws
it can be very frustrating when deal with them. sigh.. once my bb cry, my fil will comment, she want milk lah.. despite my bb is just having her milk not more than 30 mins. and he saw it. gosh..
for my mil, she is like my no1's *mummy*. everything is ahma is my no1's eyes now. really cant stand. my HB asked me not to be so petty. the thing is i am not petty, just that i am not happy when my no 1 close to me, my FIl will comment, how can you be so sticky to mummy. then he grab her away from me. but when my girl super sticky to his wige aka my mil, he like so happy and proudly say: she everythign also want ahma lah.. she cannot live without ahma. damn... so they think my girl is their kids? who is the parent?
last wkend, me and HB went back muar with no 2. my mil brot back my no1 to muar a wk ago. my in law plan to bring my girl to attend a wedding dinner. when me and HB trying to bring my no 1 for wedding dinner, they always stop us, says tht, if we bring her along, how to enjoy the dinner. then planned it and on very last min, my mil told me, i shoot her back in very bo song tone: wedding dinner? if bring her along, how you all enjoy the dinner? how to eat?
i knwo i am very bad. but i am really super bo song.. why they can bring my no1 to anywhere they want to, yet we as parent cant. furthermore me and HB travel back purposely to see my girl yet they are going to bring her to other place?
i get my HB to tell them dun bring my no1 , leave her at home. dun care. if they not happy also bo bian.. i am not oging to bother so much. i have so little time with my no1 alr.