Sweetkiss: Kayden also start to choose what shoes he wanna wear but the lucky thing is he only has 2 pairs of shoes. For boys, any type of shoes also can go with everything like that. LOL!!
I once seen on tv "Super Nanny", there is a girl who behaves like your girl too. She likes to be pretty and would insist on wearing what she want. If mummy don't allow, she will throw tantrum and in the end, her mummy gave in. For example, it is time for a swim, her mummy pick a swimming costume for her. But she don't want, she want to wear the same swimming costume which she had already worn for five days and dirty. When mummy say no, she scream and shout and throw her tantrum till her mummy gave in. So the nanny told her not to do such thing. Advise given was just give her 2 choice of clothes, do not give her a whole wardrobe of choices. Ask her to choose one. If she doesn't choose and start to create a scene, tell her that you will count to 3 and if she doesn't choose, you will choose for her and insist that she wear it.