congrats Raleigh & Summerbel!!
Summerbel - yr bb is considered quite big..Did you have a hard time getting her out?
Raleigh - You mean you feel less pain after epi is gone? I have discussed with hubby, shd I need to go for c-section, I will go for full GA..doubt I have the courage to do half GA..terrified at the thought of that my tummy will be slit open while I am half awake..
Next on the list shd be cyberbabe, right?? Wish you a smooth delivery and a healthy BB!!
I went for my 38th week check up..lost 1 kg..was worried that the fluid level was low, but Dr said fluid level is good and BB is ready to arrive pop anytime but his gut feel is that mine will be a June BB, not May BB...very likely my next appt with him will be in the delivery ward, instead of his clinic. He even suggested that I shd go shopping during GSS before BB is out..
I told him lately, I experienced frequent intense BH contractions with dull backache and stomach cramp, and sometimes nausea (and the other day I had it 3,4 times within an hr) - they make me crappy, however the contractions are not very regular - and I felt better when I rested on the bed, he said these are pre-labour contractions..and could last from days to weeks. I am so scared that when actual contraction comes, I will not be able to tell them apart. I hope to have a definite sign of labour - eg leaking/bursting waterbag or bloody menses show instead of having regular contraction pain as pain is quite relative..my pain threshold can be quite high..and given that this is #3..labour time tends to be shorter..I m scared that BB will be out before I enter the delivery ward. Hubby is on standby mode liao..He has been staying at home with me these few days..and if I went out, he would remind me to take my mobile with me..
We also had some discussion on the birth plan. I asked if it is compulsory to do cervical examination - gynae said it is necessary to check the progress of the labor and unlikely to avoid, the best he can do is to minimise it. But he said if dilation is progressing well, and if I relax myself..I shd not feel any pain..how to relax when someone is "fingering" you from beneath? Hiaz..