Hi mummies,
Hugs to Juye and GBH. LOVE syz comment to juye's hb also. but really i wonder whether her grandparents Really wanted to play with her or it was hb that presumed so. if my ILs were staying with me and wanted to play with her, then i would tell my MIL to put her to bed after playing. generally after some hiccups during the first few months, my MIL quite ok now, accept her bedtime is 8plus. i used to just leave her with them and go do my own thing if they wanted to play with her. but she is so grumpy and fussy and really no fun at all, soon they realised if want to play with her, they better come earlier. then again, my hb is the super almost-perfect type la... he will help with baby and ILs also. tho one night i complain bb cry so much he said ya-gah, i really never hear. so next night, i wake him up and say she crying. then he guai guai pick her up to rock her back to sleep. haha.
Jthan: my gal goes to IFC since 4 months also. she gets about 1 flu attack every 3-4 weeks and after that she has drippey nose for 2-3 weeks. she is totally on bm or ebm or Fbm so i understand the frequency of flu attacks are less cos of this. she also had this terrible rash on her neck that is worse on days that i put her in IFC full day. seen PD who said just got to wipe properly after feeding cos food stuff that drips there will cause allergic reaction. after i told the IFC, somehow they were more diligent in wiping and now her rash is miraculously all gone. so far rash on backside is rare and really on and off. if your IFC staff: baby ratio is not very good, then need to be more ngiow with them so they will pay attention to your baby. mine was super attentive cos they saw how bad the rash was one day then i said i bring to PD and he say must do this.
re holiday: we are going malaysia in dec and feb (cny) and bintan in jan so quite excited.