Maddie, did you just wake up? Yar, BHC more common in the night... But mine's been going on for about an hour.
gbh, my hubby just stirred and saw me awake. I told him about the regular BHC and his only comment was 'uh-oh!' then went back to sleep.
How I woke my hubby the last time was I told him that it could be contractions and I'll be monitoring it. When the water bag broke, I hit him hard enough to make him stir and coupled with a shout,' Water bag broke liao! Get up!' he really jumped out of bed...
Don't worry about not getting to hospital in time, especially since you are having your first baby. They tend to take longer to come out. That said, still must monitor cos my nephew came out in 4hrs from 1st contraction. But hor, chances still quite low lar... Most firstborns will take at least 6 hours to come out and most births take place in the wee hours.