you're welcome, Josephyn!
jonjosh, yah.. if you are afford it, it's better to use $ to solve problems. Last time, my dad offered to drive my #1 around when it is time for him to start enrichment classes.. but then, if my current pregnancy pulls through, will have headache... cos my bb will be 2 years old, and the #1 will be 4 years old. if my dad drive my #1 around, my bb will be left alone at home with the maid cos I'm a FTWM. I can't bear the thought loh... cos 2 year old kid may not be old enough to complain about maid if maid ill treats him/her. so I told my dad maybe I will get part time driver.. in the morning, send my hb and I to work, then #1 to classes, then in late morning, pick #1 up from classes, before leaving the car at my hb's office for him to drive back at 530pm. Like that, my dad can still remain at home to supervise the maid caring for #2. It's definately going to be additional expense, but will save me headache.