zhuzhu,
Her nick is settes. Don't think she really post.
Actually, best not to read too much. Just enough can liao. And more importantly, relac and don't have too much expectations. I and my HB have learnt from my 1st pregnancy. During our recent gynae visit (the first for this pregnancy), looking at our terribly un-excited faces, the gynae prolly thought we're not very happy about the pregnancy. Ha! When the gynae commented "Wah, hear the MRT train. Circle line!" when heartbeat was detected, my response to him was a flat "Very good.".
Like what I told my HB, can means can. Cannot then balek reset and try again. I'm not a pang-tang person, but in reality, nothing is quite confirmed until the baby comes out lor. Miscarriage in late pregnancy also possible. Stillbirth also possible. Aiyoh, so tragic! *sigh*