astro : hw i used to envious of other parents as their child follow them like chewing gums. my boy(cliff)is timid too but he just wander off w/o knowing it. And he nv sit still thru out wedding dinner or meals time. In order to make him sit thru it, my bag have alot of stuffs like stickers, paper, pens, new toys or biscuits. That's y i nv dare to brg him overseas except for club med since there are nanny services there. Now that he is abt to be 5, he is getting better and i no longer need to carry a whole bags of toys etc....finally gone thru this period but with #2 coming, i shudder when i tot of the whole scenario repeating.