Astro:
Maybe im too kancheong but i expect him to meet the requirement for a average kid. Interm of speech he has not meet what 90% of the tots shd hit.guessed i sacrified too much for him & my expectation of him is high.
Need to talk to my mum abt these soon. She keep comparing to her frds' grandchildren who only learn this at what age tt at what age which is slower then even whats stated in the heslth booklet. If i want m to be like them, i dont mind to spend so much $ & time on m right? Just send to a $250/mth cc tts it right?! I dont wish to be so dtraightforward to my mim coz shes sensitive, when i lectured m, she said im indirectly lecturing her!!!! M's tantrum & behaviour are getting fr bad to worse, what i hate to see in a kid all on him now. Throwing things ard at home, outside & at restaurant. When we dun go his way outside, he will cry & scream & sit on the floor tts horrendous. I don't expect a disciplined kid to behave tt way, I got to do something right? I can only talk to him when he's calm & at those moment outside I will have to grab him off to a quiet plc wait for him to calm down ( which usually take 15-30 mins) then he will listen to me.& what happen if my mum & Hb ard? They will just give him what he wants ,& when I voice out my unhappiness tt they shdnt give in to him they r unhappy w me,what can I do?
ilmm:
Haha I be doing tt too. I don't like it tt they increased fee but nvr give early notice. Though I like their lesson but $60+ for a lesson is too much for m's age for this type of lesson. fortunately is playclub now n not playnest which still match my intention of a term playnest & a term playclub. I told siti n she said she also just knew abt it then ard wk9-10.
Biting:
M been doing tt since his 1set of teeth. He will only bite my mum cox my mum don't beat him, just tell him it's painful afterwhich. He don't dare to bite me coz since his 1st few bites on me, I will always beat his mouth( or rather just tapped his mouth)& tell him cant tts painful. At times he will bite again despite telling him & I bite him back haha then he stopped( which again my mum said he dun know anything , bite him for what?)he knows if he don't know y would he stopped? He don't know what is painful then I demonstrated on him then he knows lor haha( crazy me right?) todate, for his subsequent teething, he don't dare to bite me but during play he might forget & bite me & I will say'( with a stern look) it's painful, do u want me to bite u back?'either he just smiled back at me & went off to play or hug me. So I agreed with Astro, use the mtd u prefer & be persistent.
oh ya, no handle. hhmm... Malcolm is ok with using it. Though at times, he just prefers to pour the whole cup while drinking.</font>
