hey peeps~ i am bk! mia for a long time! no time to post here leh, so i only update on fb cos there is the app on iphone... BUT hb just join FB, so better dun anyhow say there la.. not so good... BUT i still need to rant stuffs de ma.. so here i come! Lend me ur "listening" eyes!
TIEN> i am sure ur pil way better liao.. and i really envy u no need stay w them.. i wish i can move out asap!
My bb has been sick since last wed, which is the 7th day now, but he is alot better now after 2 days of antibiotics liao.. another 5 more days to go. i bought him to see pd twice, 24 hrs clinic once and hosp A&E once... he had high fever of 40 deg plus difficulty in breathing! in the end he had lungs and gut infection! Damn angry lo. cos why did he fell SO SICK in the first place?
my mil had a fever of 40 deg on last tues, so she was resting at home. and when we returned home after work, she faster woke up upon hearing my baby's chatters and come into the living room. (usually when she come home, the bb slp liao) and since i already knew she was sick from the maid, so i already "hid" my baby in the room with a qtr closed door and i spoke to the Mil in the kitchen to tell her to be take care & all. about an hour later, my MIL walk into 5 steps into my room and stood there to TALK (kikoo) with my baby!!! she went out again and come back a few times, each time advancing one more step nearer. i was in the kitchen and fuming mad when i saw. the windows were not even opened in my room yet. So i immediately walked in and show her a black face and OPENED the door to the fullest and immediately opened all the windows. i asked my HB why didnt he tell his mother off? does he know she had fever of 40deg?? and he was like she never really come in to the room ma... WTH??
dinner time. me, hb and bb in the kitchen. mil came in. kitchen so small and she was circling my boy who is seated in his high chair like a hawk. i was standing next to him and she kept ask me to go take my rice but i refuse to budge. cos i know what she up to.. i was STARING at her. and she kept on kikoo kikoo her face near my son's... my limit up when she damn childish and u know circling ard the boy and reaching out her hand to touch my boy face here and there!!!!!!!!!! I immediately tell her off "CAN YOU PLEASE DON"T TOUCH HIM? and you are sick you shouldn't be so near the baby you know? you will pass him the virus?" and her childish replies like oh i am not sick, i only got body pains etc.. please la.. body pains come becos of the super high fever ok..
that night my bb developed fever liao. of cos i damn angry and next evening i told her angrily that my bb sick with fever already. and she still deny that she was sick! and pretend it has got nothing to do with her! i told her you know bcos of wat she did the bb had to suffer and i cant go to work etc.. and she lit up her eyes and said she can help me look after! WHAT? i asked her you are sick how you help me look after? and she said she wear mask lo! Shacks! so she knew she had to wear the mask? i told her coldly, no thanks! i do not need you at all! my son i ownself take care. Fine! so i hid in the room all the time and refuse to go out. and i dun even greet them when they are home as well. simply just close my door all the time lo.
3rd day, my bb still sick and the maid was saying bcos my bb teething, and i was like huh? who tell u my bb teething? and that night my mil saw me and ask if bb still sick. and i goes YES and NOW HE HAS HIGHER FEVER. she had the cheek to say it's bcos he is teething. i gave her a cold laughter and said teething will have high fever for 3 days meh? and i went back to my room to pace... i was fuming mad. this woman is not remorseful at all. so i went out again and ask my pil if they knew y my son is sick. and i narrate wat happen that day and imitate my mil talk to my son and touch him. and i highlight that my bb is VERY YOUNG with particularly very low immune system and bcos of wat she did he is suffering and i said sorry for my bad attitude cos i was very angry with her (else she dunno i am angry) and that she is a mother too so she shld know how i feel. so she immediately said sorry etc...
but things just got worse lo.. my boy fever become higher and higher and wouldnt come dwn the nxt day.. and she went to temple to bring home some holy water to ask my bathe my son, and ask me feed ling yang and rub a cooked egg on him cos he is too heaty etc. i just tell her no feeding of other thing except BM & Water & med and no need to rub egg cos he is not heaty, he is sick. by then, both me n hb already no more than 2 hrs of slp at any one go and we were really really very tired to speak or watsoever. the bb just cry and cry and cry most of the time. and in fact we were ignoring the rest of the pple at home (not deliberately, but who has the mood to entertain?) so when i walk out to get my baby's med or water etc, i saw my mil knealing in the living rm praying?!?? if it can make her feel better, i think is ok.. Sat is a PH so PD not open, me n hb rush ard to look for a 24 hr clinic to get brufen for my bb for his high fever..
On sun, my bb complications. he couldnt breathe so we went to the NUH Children A&E. i went home and my mil ask me wat happened so i told her, now the bb had lungs and gut infection. and he had to take antibiotic now. (minus the sucking of mucus and phlegm cos i think anyone who knows will be very heart broken) BUT she had the cheek to say all babies will fall sick de, it's common, so i said ya! but we all will try to prevent the bb from falling sick and not deliberately make him sick right?
that night, when my bb cry again and we faster go get the med for him, my hb went out and realised my mil sobbing quite loudly in the living room... and he came in with the med and said he had to go talk to his mum... so when he come back he said his mum dun wan to talk. and then the bil come home to find his mum sobbing and the fil wake up to find the mum sobbing.. i was all the while in the room thinking, do i need to go out to console her? my child is so sick and i haven even cry yet why she cry? is she crying cos she is guilty? or heart pain for baby? or upset cos we were all ignoring her? i spoke to hubby and we decided not to go out to complicate matters...
frankly, now i dunno even noe how to face them. it;s like more and more things caused me to super dislike this place....
ok!!! KD wailing liao.. need to attend to him now!
