wah.. super shacked.. morning had kelly's session.. managed to finish withint he time allocated thogh kelly was late and caught in traffic.. thanks to me.. hahaha. i hav a way with my boy. most of the time i calmed him down.. bf him.. so that he stays concussed.. but still towards the end.. he was alert. for the series of 'in the basket'.. hahaha.. shd be quite funny.. teng loves photoshoot also.. i think i need to bring him to one solo one in future.. that boy likes to say cheese and take photos.. it is asy to get him to cooperate.. just keep telling him he looks handsome.. whahahahha
tien: eh.. sala lah. i said ur feeding and timings.. i.e. ur schedule.. is not in synch with the bb's needs.. i dn mean to say that feeding and sleeping shd be together.. in fact they shold not concincide.. a bb should not be fed to sleep.. feeding shd happen when a bb wakes up from his nap.. in bettwenn the bb shd stay alert.. that's the basis of the gina ford routine and the E.A.S.Y schedule of tracy hoggs.. in fact all parenting books advocate that.. coz bbs are programmed this way..
Yu Xi is waking up all the time : two possible reasons..
1. overtiredness.. so she gets cranky.. and over stimulated.. wake up every 20 - 45 minutes when she transits from deep sleep to REM sleep.. and needs ur assistance to go back to sleep.. i remember leaving a note on PY'd face book on this as well.. either intro the pacifier.. or u become the human pacifier to help her ease back into deep sleep when she comes into REM..the more iron heart ones
can let the bb cry.. max 10 inutes so that she can learn to settle herself to sleep. i plan to do this with yu he when he reaches 6 weeks.. i hope i am able to do it man.. heh
2. hunger.. but i dun think so.. but can possibly consider this to yu xi's waking.. coz u said she is sleeping when feeding.. aside from medical reasons.. like jaunaidce for yu he.. bb should be at their most alert to feed.. so that they feed enough. a sleepy bb dun take in a lot. and they will keep waking up to feed which in terms make them more tired.. and hence u see.. a vicious circle..
ong: for a moment.. i was like.. xoxo wants to stop bf-ing liao ah? when i read u asked her to apply chili etc on her nipples
soh: formula to calculate how much ur bb takes
75 * per pound of body weight = daily amt requrired
divide by 8 for X ml per three hourly feeding
xoxo: ha.. we are at two extreme ends..
ok.. yu he is not confused with the bottles. i think too much liao
he is just simply spoilt by the flow.. and hence towards the end of the feeding when the flow is not as fast as he expects it.. he gives the pattern liao.. and also if he has had enough and i still latch him. he cries and push the breasts away. all these i took it as nipple confusion! while in reality the boy is just trying telling me he has hand enough.. heh. miser said i like to force feed.. with teng.. i force fed him formula.. with yu he. i force bf him.. ha.
try tommee tippee.. the teat is designed to minic the areola.. when ifeed yu he with the bottle. i pressed all the way in one.. theni realised. coz he has to hold the wide teat in his mouth. he tend to suck like the way he does at the breast.. u try and observe? all the wdie teats operates on this principle i think. but tommee tippe is the ultimate liao. really wide.. whahahaa.. supposedly got some gold award in feeding one. and they have cute decorated bottles in pinks, blues and greens!
PP
all bfa free.. a decent buy i feel..
shugar: thanks for the link on neipa delivery..
hey.. anyone want to share share ah.. coz 4 packs mah. and i dunno if i want to order that many. i take 2 packs.. of newborn.. someone take anoter 2 packs?
i was told. nepia.. their best is newborn and small. beyond that their absorbency decreases and no longer as soft liao wor..
aneette: oh dear.. 245 for matthais's juandice..? did they recommend phototheraphy before suggesting all those tests?
yu he gena till 240 on day 3 of birth liao.. in a way the admission to the hospital was a blessing in disguise.. coz then they arrested his jaundice fast.. else skali hit 300.. blood transfusion possible wor..
last check at polyclinic yesterday. dropped to 107.. no more need to go back..