Jules, it is very good that you got a very supportive husband
For my MIL she kept telling the rest said, “baby is hungry…”, because I don’t have a text book baby, he cried all day and night. My mil even ‘told’ my baby said, “mummy doesn’t buy you pacifier never mind, ah ma buy one for u!”
I was so sad, I told my husband, if she really buys I will move out of the house…..
Actually our confinement time is really a hard time for us, we need to cope with all changes physically and mentally, so lots of the nagging from them sometime are really not at the correct time or I rather say not welcome.
So I witness lots of them turn in law to outlaw…. during their confinement time.
I am thinking not to get a confinement lady, instead cater for confinement food. I remembered when I had my #1, I engaged a CL, because I am staying with my in laws, and also my sister in law’s daughter will be there too after school….
So my MIL told my CL to cook food that suitable for everyone to eat, so it is not so really those confinement food for me…..