RE: shaving
my mum shaves for all her grandchildren. #1 was shaved by her. So #2 will be done by my mum too..
my mum's process is shave off hair, shower, eat mee suan (with chicken drumstick, vege, mushroom, prawn, meat) then she will mumble to baby.. e.g. eat mee suan.. will be long live etc..
i think traditionally, will have much more.. ours is shortcut type.. just pattern to shave and 'eat' (in hokkien, we call it 'open mouth' so bb can officially eat solid..