piggypig, because he always asks me how is my little gal.. then said i must bf longer etc.. during #1, i also didnt discuss much abt bf until much later..
if u want to chat with him without him rushing, catch him late at nite or b 1st patient.. then he will have more time..
or u can start asking him whether he has eaten, how is his 3 kids etc etc.. then he will blah blah..
whether on yrself le.. i didnt take the risk to buy exp pump during #1.. i bought avent manual 1st.. then 2 weeks into confinement, got lots of supply and needs to pump every 3 hrs.. my hb quickly bought ameda for me..
some mums dont even buy any pump. because they latch and latch.. but i cannot because bb drank 2 sides i still engorge.. so have to pump out remaining..