re confinement - i didn't hire CL during my #1, my mil came to do confinement for me. she bought a recipe book on confinement food and followed from there. basically, it was food cooked in a lot of ginger and seasame oil. there's also the pig trotters in vinegar. i ate a lot of threadfin fish, which is supp to be good and also drank a lot of soups.
if you intend to bf, you need to find out what's the CL's stand on it. some are not pro-bf, very old sch, so they can be very discouraging.
tmc has a pool of trained CL by mrs wong. those of you who are still searching for CL might wan to call up their parentcraft centre to find out. but i understand dat they do charge more than the malaysian CL. but at least, you are assured dat they are well-trained and pro-bf.