Pei,
Er... I'm not sure if the pillow is any good but just thought I'll buy it cos I guess it helps to keep baby sleeping on his back (reduce SIDS). No harm lah.
If you pump after a good latch, cannot expect to pump out much lah. The trick to a good pump if to achieve as many letdowns as possible.
Could it be that time when you pump, no letdowns?
Catherine,
Sometimes my boy does that as well, though I think it's usually when the flow is too slow (after letdown) and he is impatient. ANd then sometimes when I letdown, the flow can be too fast and he will unlatch himself and my milk drips all over his face!!! So when I feel that the letdown is fast, I will lean back a bit.
Lisha,
Personally, I don't care for confinement as well. Heheh... my mom is doing confinement for me and she'll nag when I insist on washing my hair everyday (and not blowdry), have cold drinks (once in a while) and I go out every weekend to nearby malls! I even managed to convince her to go to Robinsons' Closed Door sale with me and HB yesterday, even though I still have 1 week of confinement to go!