Lenny ur pil muz hav done something to make u really disappointed w them...u mentioned abt e irony...of e fact tat ur ils tried so hard to get a gal but in vain...
initially, i had a lot of misgivings towards my mil...rite frm e start when she asked me funny Qs like 'How come when u noe u having a bb boi frm gyni u like no expression on face?' My blur hb innocently retold to her...to e extent of holding my boi like a treasure whenever her frienz r ard, i hav accepted tat she tinks very differently frm me...i not sure if this is e case of being her 1st grandchild n grandson in particular...everytime, she says something to get me flustered, i force myself to see frm her pt of view...
Oso in some heated exchanges, she actually revealed tat i wasnt very welcome since e 1st day of our marriage...??!! Well...even though these words were said in a moment of anger...i still thot this was very unbecoming frm a senior...
Hr now, my hb is making every effort to improve e situatn bet us...we r making bb steps to work on...cos ultimately, 2 persons we love will end up forcing to take sides...ur hb n ur gal...
as long as i noe she has e interests of my son, no matter how weird her ways r...in a sense, my behaviour muz appear weird to her too...i hav learnt to let go n give her wat she desires...more time w my son/her grandson...
Frm e whole episode, i learnt tat itz tiring to put on a front in front of e ils...worst is when our hb/lo r stuck in e middle...
There r times my hb will jus wonder if i argue w my mil when he is not ard...(she finds e best time to get me flustered when he not ard sometimes) ... then he will heave a sigh of relief n jus says...
<font color="aa00aa">"I wish we can live together in harmony..."</font>
Hope one day, ur relationship w ils can b better...out of respect for our hb...
My humble thots again...