Piyobaby & suika: Thanks.
Re issues with ILs, maybe i m luckier cos' i don't stay with them (tho i see them almost everyday)& they're not difficult pple afterall. Nevertheless, humans & humans sure hv conflicts 1, if i hear sth that i dun like to hear, i pretend not to hear it, or act blurrr... if i m not happy with ILs, i complain to my hubby... but i dun expect my hubby to take side with me or whatever, i only expect him to listen & let me vent it out. After complaining, get over it...
I do agree ea family hv it's own problem, try to take it easy... =)