By the way,
Buffy,
I read somewhere during my course of study from this guy called Dabrowksi.
He says that some children have some "overexcitabilities". Meaning they are more inclined in some areas like intellectual or emotional or sensitivity.
E.g. if a child has overexcitability in sensitivity, they tend to be very sensitive in terms of senses e.g. taste, smell or sight. So if there's a strong light or very bright, they feel nauseous. Or if overexcitability in emotion, they can empathesise more with others or things. So they tend to cry more easily or get more emotional when reading news etc. May not be our bubs are like that. Just thought quite interesting reading.
Hee, just sharing some ideas.