mousebb, oh dear, i understand what u are going through. Jov has a struggle in that initial few days too, and i also worry did he eat his bf or not in school.
try to appear happy and cheerful whenever u talk about school to him. dun let him see ur worried face. and.. i not sure whats ur school's opinion, but for Jov's prev and current school, they discourage you from showing ur face halfway through the lesson. the reason being:
1. He may think you are bringing him home, and when u don't, he will feel even more crushed coz his hopes went up.
2. Subsequently, he will get to expect you every now and then to show your face, that makes him harder to settle down coz every moment he expects to see you.
3. You may affect other kids if they are also new, coz when they see you, they tot its end of school and they expect to see their parents
have u tried the scrapbook? take photos of happy kids in school and show him every day? photos of him playing? photos of teachers so he get familiar with their faces and names and thus make them more approachable? I noticed my boy sticks to one of the teachers during those weeks, and he often asked to be carried. i guess thats his way of managing his anxiety.
Having said that, i know there are cases where the kids reaction is simply too traumatising to leave him in school. like rains whom had a compelling reason (her father) to pull her child out, my friend also pulled out her boy (same age as my son, enter school same time) after a few weeks coz he repeatedly cry until he vomits. so do observe him and see how he's taking it. if there's signs however mild, of improving, then it may get better.
if however, he's so traumatised he lose appetite, behaviour change, cant sleep (but its normal for children to wake up more often during that first few weeks of new school), or any others, maybe u can reconsider.....give him 2 weeks and see how...
Karen, JG is great isn't it??
i love it too. great enthusiastic teachers, interesting creative ways of teaching, lots of music and play. am putting Jaz in bilingual playclub when she turns 18mths.