rebecca,
yah lor, i haven been thru tat coz last yr is not a good year for customary coz my hubby will "fang tao hua" so we postpone that. We went to look for dates b4 preggy. We ROM in Jul 2007, intend to customary last yr but coz i pantang so pushed it backwards.
Of coz lah, muz take back the $$$ if she really heartless,i will tell all her relatives how er xin she is!