Lochia: thanks ladies for your assurance that the smell is normal. storeberry, mine is also a jelly like substance now. I checked with my massage lady, and she was assuring me that the smell is normal and that the lochia's jelly texture is normal. So long as it's not bright red blood, which means some fresh new wound inside or something ruptured, I'm fine, no need to see gynae.
Flos, Sri_leo, janf, wingkei: congrats on your delivery!
Flos: when you MIA, we were guessing you must have popped!
looking forward to seeing Issac's pictures!
Bathing: I had my "first official bath" today with herbal water and white rice wine. Hee, so far I've washed my hair 3 times and bathed 5 times since I popped on 3 Sep.

I always wipe myself with warm heater water whenever I feel yucky a few times a day. My CL told me that the next time I can wash my hair is on baby's full month! that's absurb! haha .... I dun care, after 12 days, I'm gonna bath and wash hair more often since they told me the 1st 12 days very important.
dracwy (dracwy): thanks for sharing your views from the hubby's point of view. Your wife is so blessed to have an understanding hubby like you. It's indeed important to us women to know that all the suffering, pain and hard work that we went through is well appreciated by our hubby.
Ava: I love the picture of Adan and the twins! So heartwarming!
Exposing our breasts: I'm still not comfortable to exposing my breasts. But my CL is enjoying watching me milk myself! Dunno how to tell her off leh ... Cos i usually pump when she and baby retires to the room and I pump as I watch tv. Then now she brings my baby out and watch tv and watch me pump at same time, commenting how the handsfree device is the first she had seen, how other ex-clients of hers had to struggle wih holding the bottles and pump etc. Ask this and that, how much, buy from where ... arghhh .... I think it affected my milk flow leh! pissed!