Xuanting and Sarahmay, yes, I would love to go for counselling with my hubby, but as you all have guessed, he feels it's a waste of time and money. Or else he will say that only I need it. Maybe it's hormones as well, but nowadays, I also get very upset and angry when he says I have no brains doing this and that.
And he still makes sure that I complete every chore to his satisfaction before going to bed at night. Just like last night, he was standing beside the iron and looking at it and waiting for me to keep it when inside I'm just thinking that since he's standing beside it, he could just have simply kept it. And he also makes sure I close the room door before I can sleep when he is nearer to it! I don't know, these little things eek me these days too.
I think to those people who do not have a pet or have never kept one before, they do not understand. My MIL is the same, sometimes, she would ask me if I still carry the dog at my parents' house and I would just tell her yes, but I think she's not happy about it. They all think that it is unhygienic or something. We do not even bring the dog out at all, so what kind of bacteria can it catch?