Hi Shazz, right... you are the one who gave me the no for AWARE. Sorry I forgot that. Well, I never really expected him to be angry when he learnt that I went for counselling, thought maybe he would think it's a good idea too, at least reduce the conflicts between us. But I guess I was wrong. Anyway, it would seem like you are right on your analysis.
Hi ypg, your detailed reasoning does make sense. I'm not sure about the part where his mom took care not to hurt his ego while bringing him up but I know he definitely can't forget and forgive regarding my parents. I just feel that how can we move on if he doesn't forget and forgive. sigh.... But yeah, he doesn't like me to do things for my family and is very calculative towards them too, in all sense, including money. He will make sure he counts every cent with them clearly and doesn't allow me to give them extra money.
Yes, I am very close to my family, maybe he is jealous of that too? No, the baby was not unplanned, it was simply.. according to him, let nature take its course, even though I didn't want a baby so soon. No, he is not much better in his atitude towards baby, especially when we quarrel, then he will totally ignore baby, even when she is crying hysterically, he would not carry her or go near her and just pretend to sleep. Yes, you are right. Most of our quarrels are around our parents. Well, the thing is that he expects me to go to his parents more than once a week, but we can only go max, once to my parents', if once a fortnight, it would even be better, which is what I can't stand. He definitely would not go more than once a week, for that, I am very sure. I've already worked very hard to make sure that we can go to my parents' at least once a week.