aurora,
ya, overfeeding that led her to throw up milk that lead to heartburn. i've cut her daily milk intake from 1280ml a day to 800plus a day. a whopping 4 bottles of milk! she is doing better now, jus that my mom came over to help out as hubby is down with gastric flu
so all of us have to be careful. the problem is mom is very stubborn n she keeps going in n out of my baby's rm to adjust things, clean things, change things, take out things. each time bb "er er" she dash to her n pad her n talk to her n give her pacifier n carry her or sing to her or carry her around the hse to walk her to sleep!!!!!!! end up bb didn;t really sleep frm 11am to 10:30pm!!!!! i was so tired frm monitoring my mom n trying to do things myself so she will not disturb bb but each time i go to my rm to rest or go to the toilet, she will go to the bb. sigh. bb keep crying cos she is trying to sleep, i can't handle liao so mom keep carrying her to stop her frm crying.
at night, i had enough, i told my mom n my maid off to tell them not to keep going in to the bb;s rm each time she makes noise. let her soothe herself to sleep , she has always done that until my mom cam over to mess up her routine.
she made the maid n me take out the cot mobile saying need to wash already, than change a new one, n wipe her bed stand n rearrange her toys all while bb is trying to sleep n she got my maid to help her as well. she kept adjusting the fan n pillow etc.
last nt, my mom wanted to sleep in bb;s rm cos hubby took the study rm to sleep, i refused to cos it will b a neverending nt! i change back to her old cot mobile n talk to bb n she went back to her old routine last nt.
this morning, after i fed bb, n bb jus made some noise cos she wants to play with the toys on her cot mobile, n my maid quickly wanted to go to her, i scolded leave her alone. i went in to settle bb n she is fine. next my mom came up n wanted to go to bb;s r n take her to bathe 30mins after feeds! i dashed to her rm on time to stop mom frm entering n chase her to the kitchen. i;ve told her, she is only here for 2days n mess up everything n never do things on an ad hoc basic. baby is setting a routine, they need a routine to b secured yet mom jus do things randomly never thinking she will upset the bb. make me so tired just by "watching" my mom. end up. instead of helping, she is making me even more tired
maid:
my maid went to copy me n call my girl darling. i was taken aback cos she used to call her bb or her name. wat u guys think?