Hello everyone here its time to niagm again /nag here..
i m a sahm with two boys w/o any helper..365dayz- facing or taking care them everyday/hr..
Very fume n hot abt my hubby's 'hack care' plus 'bo chap' attitudes sometime is up to his gd mood he will take care of the kids..But sad to say he oni takes less then half the shares to look after them.. Plus even he has off days he never bring us out as a family outing..mostly he pushes anyting to mi to do..hsewrks n even packing makan or buy tings i got to bring along with two bbs where as he juz sit n plays his PS2 games at home... Sigh.. Sometime he's ard at home ..i ask him to take care them or either one of them but he will answer mi: Is your problem to look after them!! Mostly 90% he's a 'tua bak kong'(wooden statue) who doesnt have a auto gear tat he Prefer to play games rather facing them n mi when ard at home... GRRRRRRRR... Or juz act blur to ignore bbs crying or 2.5yr old bb asking him to play toys/do tings ..
Plus he n his mom can say is very very 'easy' to take care kids n there's no stress at all..then i say: 'Ya loh their use big mouth to talk of coz easy'..hor!! Doesnt need hand or brain movement......TATS Y He uses he mouth to do things at home....
At home i hardly has freedom to move..especially meals times tat i m like a octopus got to feed 3 mouths-including myself.. N he juz finsh his food then dump the dishes in the sink/continue doing his OWN tings not even helping mi to feed them..Then he shout wat took so long to feed or finish makan.....Even emergency case he pushes everyting to my mum either i m sick or my the kids r sick to help out.. GRRRRRRRRRR...his mum is oso sama sama bo chap to her grandchildren..if i ask her to look after them when either one fall sick(fever) she can give mi a idoit excuse 'today i m not free tomoro i come over ro help can?? ..
Oni till the two monsters K.O to dreamlands..ZZZzzz..then its my time to relax abit..N mostly time i will bring them out alone to relieve my stress..
I feel tat machiam i m a 'fatimah'(maid) to the three kings at home !!!!
Sori for the 'li li lor lor'..long nagging story...
i m a sahm with two boys w/o any helper..365dayz- facing or taking care them everyday/hr..
Very fume n hot abt my hubby's 'hack care' plus 'bo chap' attitudes sometime is up to his gd mood he will take care of the kids..But sad to say he oni takes less then half the shares to look after them.. Plus even he has off days he never bring us out as a family outing..mostly he pushes anyting to mi to do..hsewrks n even packing makan or buy tings i got to bring along with two bbs where as he juz sit n plays his PS2 games at home... Sigh.. Sometime he's ard at home ..i ask him to take care them or either one of them but he will answer mi: Is your problem to look after them!! Mostly 90% he's a 'tua bak kong'(wooden statue) who doesnt have a auto gear tat he Prefer to play games rather facing them n mi when ard at home... GRRRRRRRR... Or juz act blur to ignore bbs crying or 2.5yr old bb asking him to play toys/do tings ..
Plus he n his mom can say is very very 'easy' to take care kids n there's no stress at all..then i say: 'Ya loh their use big mouth to talk of coz easy'..hor!! Doesnt need hand or brain movement......TATS Y He uses he mouth to do things at home....
At home i hardly has freedom to move..especially meals times tat i m like a octopus got to feed 3 mouths-including myself.. N he juz finsh his food then dump the dishes in the sink/continue doing his OWN tings not even helping mi to feed them..Then he shout wat took so long to feed or finish makan.....Even emergency case he pushes everyting to my mum either i m sick or my the kids r sick to help out.. GRRRRRRRRRR...his mum is oso sama sama bo chap to her grandchildren..if i ask her to look after them when either one fall sick(fever) she can give mi a idoit excuse 'today i m not free tomoro i come over ro help can?? ..
Oni till the two monsters K.O to dreamlands..ZZZzzz..then its my time to relax abit..N mostly time i will bring them out alone to relieve my stress..
I feel tat machiam i m a 'fatimah'(maid) to the three kings at home !!!!
Sori for the 'li li lor lor'..long nagging story...