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paulnelaine
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angel,
seems like ur girl might have colic.... do u find her tummy bloated?? anyway maybeu should bring her to PD for a check n see why she feel so uncomfortable n always cries. My 1st boy also cries a lot n a lot for e 1st few months until I dont dare to bring him out shopping, everybody was so so scared of him during e 1st few months cos he is really a crying baby. I brought a electric yaolan for him but he also dont want, in e end i everyday got to carry, swing, rock etc etc to make him stop crying until i injured my wrist..... come to think of it tat was really a suffering 1st few month until i give up e thought of being a SAHM n get a maid n i went back to work on e 5th month.
seems like ur girl might have colic.... do u find her tummy bloated?? anyway maybeu should bring her to PD for a check n see why she feel so uncomfortable n always cries. My 1st boy also cries a lot n a lot for e 1st few months until I dont dare to bring him out shopping, everybody was so so scared of him during e 1st few months cos he is really a crying baby. I brought a electric yaolan for him but he also dont want, in e end i everyday got to carry, swing, rock etc etc to make him stop crying until i injured my wrist..... come to think of it tat was really a suffering 1st few month until i give up e thought of being a SAHM n get a maid n i went back to work on e 5th month.
paulnelaine
Member
angel,
do some massage for ur girl will help too....
do some massage for ur girl will help too....
paulnelaine
Member
JP,
SAHM
====
1. Huggy
2. Cynthia
3. JP (2 kids)
FTWM
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1. angel_z (only start work in nov)
2. paulnelaine (only start work in jan 09)
SAHM
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1. Huggy
2. Cynthia
3. JP (2 kids)
FTWM
====
1. angel_z (only start work in nov)
2. paulnelaine (only start work in jan 09)
elaine: my baby's stomach not bloated.. she farts alot.. sometimes she will cry when fart too.. sigh.. everything oso cry.. but i realise that whenever i rub her tummy with ru yi oil, she will cry too.. is it stomach problem?
my mum said she is being cranky.. dun like ppl to touch her sotmach..
wa.. you oso very chiam like me.. lucky my girl still like the electric yao lan.. my parents, in-laws all scrae of my baby too.. sigh.. my mum see me so chiam oso ask me to get a maid..
but if i get a maid, she will be alone with my baby.. after the toture incident on the news previously, i scare to put my baby alone with the maid leh..
elaine, you have someone to accompany the maid with the baby?
my mum said she is being cranky.. dun like ppl to touch her sotmach..
wa.. you oso very chiam like me.. lucky my girl still like the electric yao lan.. my parents, in-laws all scrae of my baby too.. sigh.. my mum see me so chiam oso ask me to get a maid..
but if i get a maid, she will be alone with my baby.. after the toture incident on the news previously, i scare to put my baby alone with the maid leh..
elaine, you have someone to accompany the maid with the baby?
angel,
yes.. try to bathe her after her feed 10-20mins.. cos they r most quiet down during tat period.. full n contented..
my bb loves massage.. i dunno the correct way but i jus massage his legs.. his hands.. his shoulder.. his tummy.. he will luff when i do tat.. kekeke..
yes.. try to bathe her after her feed 10-20mins.. cos they r most quiet down during tat period.. full n contented..
my bb loves massage.. i dunno the correct way but i jus massage his legs.. his hands.. his shoulder.. his tummy.. he will luff when i do tat.. kekeke..
I hope you guys don't mind me putting up this chart. It will help us to get to know each other better, easier for us to organize gatherings, etc.
<table border=1><tr><td>Nick</TD><TD>SAHM/FTWM</TD><TD>No. of Kids</TD><TD>Location </TD></TR><TR><TD>Huggy</TD><TD>SAHM</TD><TD> -</TD><TD> -</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>Cynthia</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD> -</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>JP</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD> Sgoon North</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>samsoon</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD>Pasir Panjang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>angel_z</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Nov08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD>Bkt Panjang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>paulnelaine</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Jan09)</TD><TD>-</TD><TD>-</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>babycupid</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD>1</TD><TD>Sengkang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>jenny</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD> Hougang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></td></tr></table>
<table border=1><tr><td>Nick</TD><TD>SAHM/FTWM</TD><TD>No. of Kids</TD><TD>Location </TD></TR><TR><TD>Huggy</TD><TD>SAHM</TD><TD> -</TD><TD> -</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>Cynthia</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD> -</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>JP</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD> Sgoon North</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>samsoon</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD>Pasir Panjang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>angel_z</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Nov08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD>Bkt Panjang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>paulnelaine</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Jan09)</TD><TD>-</TD><TD>-</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>babycupid</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD>1</TD><TD>Sengkang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>jenny</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD> Hougang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></td></tr></table>
angel
I apply 'ma you' on bb bellybutton b4 bath. Heard this prevent wind. Similarly, will wait an hour aft feed then bath as my bb will poopoo 1/2hrs aft feed. I will lower her leg 1st then butt. Last time i use to wash her hair 1st, clean up then take off clothes & bath.
U might want to slowly go thru ur bb joint to see if any part is hurting... Or maybe she prefer aircon as hot she will be fussy?
All trial & error, if bo pian then see PD lor..
I apply 'ma you' on bb bellybutton b4 bath. Heard this prevent wind. Similarly, will wait an hour aft feed then bath as my bb will poopoo 1/2hrs aft feed. I will lower her leg 1st then butt. Last time i use to wash her hair 1st, clean up then take off clothes & bath.
U might want to slowly go thru ur bb joint to see if any part is hurting... Or maybe she prefer aircon as hot she will be fussy?
All trial & error, if bo pian then see PD lor..
paulnelaine
Member
hi angel,
same as me, my MIL n mum also very scared of my elder boy last time. My hubby n I always got to take turn to rock n carry him in e middle of e nite, my hse is facing e expressway so when we carry him to e living room at nite he can fall asleep faster but once we carry him back to our room he will wake up a scream again..... in e end i got a maid but by e time e maid come my boy is already 4months+ old n my MIL is at home supervisoring e maid. I agree tat better not to leave maid with baby alone at home, maybe u can leave them at ur PIL or ur parents' hse during e day n bring them back at nite if not worst case u should install a camera to supervisor wat's going on at home.
same as me, my MIL n mum also very scared of my elder boy last time. My hubby n I always got to take turn to rock n carry him in e middle of e nite, my hse is facing e expressway so when we carry him to e living room at nite he can fall asleep faster but once we carry him back to our room he will wake up a scream again..... in e end i got a maid but by e time e maid come my boy is already 4months+ old n my MIL is at home supervisoring e maid. I agree tat better not to leave maid with baby alone at home, maybe u can leave them at ur PIL or ur parents' hse during e day n bring them back at nite if not worst case u should install a camera to supervisor wat's going on at home.
angel,
yes.. i jus press press here press press there.. he loves the touch lor.. den tummy rub..
samsoon,
i will start wif cleaning of his mouth.. den follow by his face.. den hair.. den unwrapped him and dip in water.. pat pat his chest.. den start the bathing.. kekeke..
yes.. i jus press press here press press there.. he loves the touch lor.. den tummy rub..
samsoon,
i will start wif cleaning of his mouth.. den follow by his face.. den hair.. den unwrapped him and dip in water.. pat pat his chest.. den start the bathing.. kekeke..
samsoon: what is ma you? you buy from medicial hall? diff from ru yi oil is it?
hey.. good tip.. wash hair 1st, take off clothes and bath.. will try next time..
ya.. all the best for your interview!
elaine: oh... all my parents n in-laws are working so no one can look after the maid leh... if onli there is someone at home, i will hire a maid immediately..
i feel stuck at home.. can't wait to go to work asap.. this is the longest 3 months ever in my whole life..
hey.. good tip.. wash hair 1st, take off clothes and bath.. will try next time..
ya.. all the best for your interview!
elaine: oh... all my parents n in-laws are working so no one can look after the maid leh... if onli there is someone at home, i will hire a maid immediately..
i feel stuck at home.. can't wait to go to work asap.. this is the longest 3 months ever in my whole life..
babycupid: ok.. i will try press press her.. maybe with her clothes on 1st.. in case she screams her head off again..
for bathing: i will clean her mouth, eyes, ears, face then hair.. pat pat her chest with water then slowly put her into the water.. once inside water bath very fast le..
she usu start crying in the middle of the bathing.. all the way until i finish wearing all her clothes.. sigh..
for bathing: i will clean her mouth, eyes, ears, face then hair.. pat pat her chest with water then slowly put her into the water.. once inside water bath very fast le..
she usu start crying in the middle of the bathing.. all the way until i finish wearing all her clothes.. sigh..
angel
ma you is sesame oil...but i think olive oil also can lar cos the purpose is oil prevent water. i bath bb between 8-10pm. After tat she sleep like pig. Elderly say will kana 'fong si' but i off all fan/aircon & close all window. I increase my bb tummy time on my bloster & its help to get off some wind, she love it too.
babycupid
U want try squeezing water on bb hair..hehe. My bb open her mouth & start to drink. Aiyo.. got soap inside. Since she like it, i prepare lukewarm water & splash on her head.. she love it!
ma you is sesame oil...but i think olive oil also can lar cos the purpose is oil prevent water. i bath bb between 8-10pm. After tat she sleep like pig. Elderly say will kana 'fong si' but i off all fan/aircon & close all window. I increase my bb tummy time on my bloster & its help to get off some wind, she love it too.
babycupid
U want try squeezing water on bb hair..hehe. My bb open her mouth & start to drink. Aiyo.. got soap inside. Since she like it, i prepare lukewarm water & splash on her head.. she love it!
JP,
Yes, my 1st child, BB gal. I stay in Sembawang.
Angel,
"Ma you", is the sesame oil used for cooking when we are on confinement.
If your bb dislike being touch at her stomach, maybe that is the part that cause her to cry for everything. You shd bring your BB to see a PD, just in case there is something wrong with her stomach. So that problem can be found earlier, then can cure faster.
Yes, my 1st child, BB gal. I stay in Sembawang.
Angel,
"Ma you", is the sesame oil used for cooking when we are on confinement.
If your bb dislike being touch at her stomach, maybe that is the part that cause her to cry for everything. You shd bring your BB to see a PD, just in case there is something wrong with her stomach. So that problem can be found earlier, then can cure faster.
<table border=1><tr><td>Nick</TD><TD>SAHM/FTWM</TD><TD>No. of Kids</TD><TD>Location </TD></TR><TR><TD>Huggy</TD><TD>SAHM</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD> Sembawang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>Cynthia</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD> -</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>JP</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD> Sgoon North</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>samsoon</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD>Pasir Panjang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>angel_z</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Nov08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD>Bkt Panjang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>paulnelaine</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Jan09)</TD><TD>-</TD><TD>-</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>babycupid</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD>1</TD><TD>Sengkang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>jenny</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD> Hougang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></td></tr></table>
iamsnow, your gal got so much hair
My gal looks so botak.
Fennie, I still can't get BB to latch on directly correctly. She bites my nipple and her suction is too strong for me. She caused me to have sore nipple and serious engorgement for the 1st 2 weeks, almost give up on bf because of it.
Fennie, I still can't get BB to latch on directly correctly. She bites my nipple and her suction is too strong for me. She caused me to have sore nipple and serious engorgement for the 1st 2 weeks, almost give up on bf because of it.
paulnelaine
Member
hi angel,
i've send u an email abt a baby massage session organised by TMC n J&J this coming sunday, is a bit rush for u to sign up but u might want to try calling them n see whether they still have space for u to bring ur girl down with Yequn. But u have to go purchase more than $10 johnson & johnson product n get e receipt n show to them during registration....... Give it a try if u are free tis sunday.......
i've send u an email abt a baby massage session organised by TMC n J&J this coming sunday, is a bit rush for u to sign up but u might want to try calling them n see whether they still have space for u to bring ur girl down with Yequn. But u have to go purchase more than $10 johnson & johnson product n get e receipt n show to them during registration....... Give it a try if u are free tis sunday.......
samsoon, huggy: sesame oil ah? ohh... wouldn't it be very oily? then after apply aledi how to clean off? does it stink?
JP: ok.. thanks for the contact.. will check out this yu guo..
Ok.. shall bring my baby to go see PD..
Thanks for all the console and suggestions.. ^_^ Glad i came here.. Was feeling sad this morning.. sigh..
JP: ok.. thanks for the contact.. will check out this yu guo..
Ok.. shall bring my baby to go see PD..
Thanks for all the console and suggestions.. ^_^ Glad i came here.. Was feeling sad this morning.. sigh..
paulnelaine
Member
JP,
i'm staying in Ubi with 2 kids.
i'm staying in Ubi with 2 kids.
angel,
no nd to be sad.. we r here man.. we experience tat too.. haiz.. hope everything gona be ok after 3rd mth! cos my mum said the most difficult period is 1st - 3rd mth.. lucky ones after full mth ok le.. but most nd at least 3 mths lor..
samsoon,
ar.. issit.. i nvr try to squeeze water on his hair wor.. mayb i can try.. haha.. but wait he cry den i die la.. i always bathe him ard 2-3pm.. depends..
no nd to be sad.. we r here man.. we experience tat too.. haiz.. hope everything gona be ok after 3rd mth! cos my mum said the most difficult period is 1st - 3rd mth.. lucky ones after full mth ok le.. but most nd at least 3 mths lor..
samsoon,
ar.. issit.. i nvr try to squeeze water on his hair wor.. mayb i can try.. haha.. but wait he cry den i die la.. i always bathe him ard 2-3pm.. depends..
paulnelaine
Member
hi angel,
e talk is between 2.30pm to 5pm.... maybe u can go after attending e party...
e talk is between 2.30pm to 5pm.... maybe u can go after attending e party...
SAHM
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1. Huggy
2. Cynthia
3. JP (2 kids)
4. samsoon (going interview soon)
5. star (going to quit once my ML ends. YEAH!!)
FTWM
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1. angel_z (only start work in nov)
2. paulnelaine (only start work in jan 09)
3. babycupid (start work on 2 sep)
4. morraine (start work in sep 08
====
1. Huggy
2. Cynthia
3. JP (2 kids)
4. samsoon (going interview soon)
5. star (going to quit once my ML ends. YEAH!!)
FTWM
====
1. angel_z (only start work in nov)
2. paulnelaine (only start work in jan 09)
3. babycupid (start work on 2 sep)
4. morraine (start work in sep 08
Hi ladies, seems like I am late to check this forum you all started exicited about the gatherings I was thinking of, so fast. Let me attention this post to some dear ladies first then I get down to the work of gatherings in CWP and Buffet Gathering thingy.
Cynthia, got gathering I sure ask you one, coz rem you told me you also looking forward to 'check it out' with us, hee, dun worry lar.
Crystal, my mgr not easy lar, he is waiting for me to go back office to stand by for him while he planning to go Taiwan. He won't allow me to go UK one even though others over there want me to so I leave to god. Hee, anyway, I just want to go for the cool autumn weather and get away from work niah.
samsoon, I see how lar, even down there 'sinz' feeling if hb wants also give lar, painful for 1st or 2nd time only, most important, our relationship still going strong. Yesterday told him, I kept doing all things for him, he didnt even offer go my mum's house pick me up, wat if I die one day who is going to wake him up every morning, get him dinner and look after his needs? He told me easy lar, so many women out there to do all his biddings, haiz, big talk.
Mor, your Ashton very handsome leh, a bit like angmoh. Iamsnow, I like your gals face and eyes, so sweet.
nss, thanks. Jaret also handsome boy with boyish look, he very guai leh, not like Vivienne, aiyo, go out always look around, get impatient if does not the surrounding. She slept througout the late afternoon till this morning except for feeds, then hor, woke up very early, I couldnt express out my morning milk so have to latch her on. Hv to bath and eat breakfast in between her quiet time. Then just now brought her go PD for her phglemy throat and 6in1 jab. Finally sucessfully used my sarong but she sling in when sleeping and want to come out look around when she awake, haiz, this gal more difficult than her bro.
Cynthia, got gathering I sure ask you one, coz rem you told me you also looking forward to 'check it out' with us, hee, dun worry lar.
Crystal, my mgr not easy lar, he is waiting for me to go back office to stand by for him while he planning to go Taiwan. He won't allow me to go UK one even though others over there want me to so I leave to god. Hee, anyway, I just want to go for the cool autumn weather and get away from work niah.
samsoon, I see how lar, even down there 'sinz' feeling if hb wants also give lar, painful for 1st or 2nd time only, most important, our relationship still going strong. Yesterday told him, I kept doing all things for him, he didnt even offer go my mum's house pick me up, wat if I die one day who is going to wake him up every morning, get him dinner and look after his needs? He told me easy lar, so many women out there to do all his biddings, haiz, big talk.
Mor, your Ashton very handsome leh, a bit like angmoh. Iamsnow, I like your gals face and eyes, so sweet.
nss, thanks. Jaret also handsome boy with boyish look, he very guai leh, not like Vivienne, aiyo, go out always look around, get impatient if does not the surrounding. She slept througout the late afternoon till this morning except for feeds, then hor, woke up very early, I couldnt express out my morning milk so have to latch her on. Hv to bath and eat breakfast in between her quiet time. Then just now brought her go PD for her phglemy throat and 6in1 jab. Finally sucessfully used my sarong but she sling in when sleeping and want to come out look around when she awake, haiz, this gal more difficult than her bro.
baby cupid: my mum told me tat too.. that my baby will be better after 3 mths.. this fri is her 12 week.. i'm relai hoping n praying that she will be better from next week onwards.. but i'm not having high hopes..
samsoon: ok.. thanks for the tip.. dun know my mum will let me apply ma you on her not.. haahahaha..
samsoon: ok.. thanks for the tip.. dun know my mum will let me apply ma you on her not.. haahahaha..
angelz, where did you disappear to? I was telling my mum I couldnt find you, she said maybe I too kaypo liao so you disappear because of me. Glad to see you active here again. Heard about your mum helping you with Sheryl, I am sure she will grow out of this difficult phrase very soon.
JP, me FTWM going back work on 1st Sep. TIA for the update.
JP, me FTWM going back work on 1st Sep. TIA for the update.
<table border=1><tr><td>Nick</TD><TD>SAHM/FTWM</TD><TD>No. of Kids</TD><TD>Location </TD></TR><TR><TD>Huggy</TD><TD>SAHM</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD> Sembawang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>Cynthia</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD> -</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>JP</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD> Sgoon North</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>samsoon</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD>Pasir Panjang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>star</TD><TD>SAHM</TD><TD>1</TD><TD>Yishun</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>angel_z</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Nov08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD>Bkt Panjang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>paulnelaine</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Jan09)</TD><TD>2</TD><TD>Ubi</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>babycupid</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD>1</TD><TD>Sengkang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>jenny</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD> Hougang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>morraine</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD>-</TD><TD>-</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>Veniz</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD>-</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></td></tr></table>
veniz: i disappear to be in my baby's nightmare loh.. i think i got depression le.. now n then will cry.. my mum n my husband are so worried about me n baby..
hahaha.. no la.. actually i missed chatting with you.. you not kaypo la.. my baby disturb me until i can't chat here.. sigh.. then today i was feeling very depressed then i decided what the heck.. jus come online n chat to make my self feel better loh..
yes.. my mum is working but she still comes over to help with sheryl.. i feel bad for making my mum runs here n there.. but i reali can't handle her myself so my mum comes here..
hahaha.. no la.. actually i missed chatting with you.. you not kaypo la.. my baby disturb me until i can't chat here.. sigh.. then today i was feeling very depressed then i decided what the heck.. jus come online n chat to make my self feel better loh..
yes.. my mum is working but she still comes over to help with sheryl.. i feel bad for making my mum runs here n there.. but i reali can't handle her myself so my mum comes here..
<table border=1><tr><td>Nick</TD><TD>SAHM/FTWM</TD><TD>No. of Kids</TD><TD>Location</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>Huggy</TD><TD>SAHM</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD> Sembawang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>Cynthia</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD> -</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>JP</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD> Sgoon North</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>samsoon</TD><TD> SAHM</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD>Pasir Panjang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>star</TD><TD>SAHM</TD><TD>1</TD><TD>Yishun</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>angel_z</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Nov08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD>Bkt Panjang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>paulnelaine</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Jan09)</TD><TD>2</TD><TD>Ubi</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>babycupid</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD>1</TD><TD>Sengkang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>jenny</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD> Hougang</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>morraine</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD>-</TD><TD>-</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>Veniz</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Sep08)</TD><TD> 2</TD><TD>-</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>juliet08</TD><TD> FTWM (frm Aug08)</TD><TD> 1</TD><TD> Jurong West</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></td></tr></table>
