Cactus, just a a thinker.
A dase of sincerity with some humble-ness is all you need in posts to let us warm towards you.
When we asked something, you do not have to go into the great details,esp those private/ confidental ones. If you tend to give 100% detailed information, it is really unneccessary, thus in this case, you were being seen as 'boastful'. I will suggest that by showing sincerity, you can show your Matthew's photos, even yours, and also try to participate any of our gatherings to know all of us and let us know you better. The mummies here are all nice, they will not bite. But its really, with all your detailed posts and with you always seem to hide behind the digital set and screen made us think of you in such way.
Anyway, as you mentioned, we are here to share and learn. I am also thankful to some of your reserches which you posted previously.
We hope at the end of the day, our June Thread is one of the nicest thread with nice mummies sharing information, conversations, photos and good comments.