i also accidently cut my gal's finger, can see a piece of skin being strip off, so heart pain & got scolded by my husband. my SIL advise me to use scissors & really is much easier.
whenever my gal cry, i'll try to carry her & she likes the upright position. if that doesn't works, i'll put her in the yao lan. But am trying not to let her sleep in the yaolan all the time during the day (at night, she'll sleep in her cot). but when i put her on the mattress, she'll not sleep, eyes open big big & after awhile she'll cry. how can i not let her sleep in the yaolan? my gal nanny said try not to let her sleep in the yaolan if not when we bring her out, she'll wants to "yao yao"... how?
as for cleaning, i try to reach as far in as possible when she cry out loud & do a quick one...though is really heart pain to see her cry out loud, but after a few times, got used to it. & now she knows that i'm cleaning her tongue, she'll sort of suck my finger, so that i won't be able to clean, so cute..