Gar
I don't have luxury of good help. Now that things are easier with SM sleeping through the night, I do occasionally entertain thoughts of another baby but seriously, with my maid problems and mil's karma with maids (plus maybe SIL also wants to start a family?), i think really cannot. I myself also do not see me as a good SAHM type. And the cost of living in Spore is so high. Imagine when they all start going to university, one after another, how much $$ do we have to save? They better take scholarships or else, no education for them! haha.