kitsune,
luv cannot be measured. sometimes i also feel the same way as u, n my hb is sweet in certain ways, which makes me feel im fated to be "stucked" with him.
pixie,
yes, u r smart indeed to turn the tables around and make it a win win situation. i think my fren just give up trying, to make her marriage better. this is wat she said, silence doesnt mean im resigned to my fate, it simply means i cant be bothered anymore.
speaking about marriage, i would like to ask can a marriage last without S? my friend often say its like a yin yang thing, essential for a marriage to go on.