blackbatz,
Never bring my #1 to see one cos his PD said its normal. She went thru that before. She said she dare to say her #1 was a very gd girl and when she had #2, her #1 got very rebellious. Exactly, that was what happened to my #1. Things will settle down. But such behaviour can last for ONE year. Perhaps, my #1 has been such a darling. In a way that he very close to me and always listen to me, accepting my explaination as y he cant do this and that. When he went against me, I couldnt take it + handling a NB + a stupid/idiotic maid. Thus, lead me to have the thought. It was so bad that I actually went to shop and got a cane. Luckily, I still have some sanity and nv use on him So, u know how jia lat ah??!! hehe.... Well, he is more settled now. At least he has not been crying for the past 1 wk+ when I sent him to school, showing more interest in school, telling me what he does in school, willing to go out with my mil when my mil wanna bring him out. Before that he cried like hell and 24/7 with me. He totally shut himself during the past 2 mths. Hai~ before that I thought wait my #1 to be older then have #2 so its easier to handle #1. But who knows, the older they are, the more they know and things r even tougher. Before that I was so proud to annouce that I manage to train him to sleep on his own cos when my #2 is out, I can attend to my #2. ALL RUBBISH!!! Now I am back to square one. I complained to his PD and she laughed at me. Saying "Aiya...its like that one. You never tell me, if I know, I would tell u dont bother to go thru that. Waste time only. Can only start all these again after he is settled down".
mylife,
Yeah, SAHM now but wanna go back to work. Firstly, I got help now and secondly, with 2 kids if wanna have more comfy life, sending them to those enrichment classes, dual income is essential. And thirdly, my CPF has been depleted long ago. My hb is self employed. Housing loan is paid by cash, find it really silly. Hehe.... And I feel bad cos hb one peson gotta support so many "mouth". Juz trying to do my part and take away some of such burden.