mylvera,
Hugzzz! Hope your cough goes away real soon, so you have a healthy body to settle all the issues you face. It must be very stressful for you, to hold the financial and to take care of 3 kids, really not easy hor.
krsytle,
Ya, I think it's a new job hence he needs to be in more time and effort now to get know to his job, so I let him have more time, else end up he also stress and not happy. Hope it will be better soon. I don't think he can knock off from work on time everyday, but maybe 2 days in a week is enough to lessen my stress.
kitsune,
Thanks. Yes, one day I look back I will be very proud of myself
But really, I have my kids to thank, they both are considered easy kids (relatively).
tongtong,
Oh, that's cool, teaching adults cooking healthy food, means your dream comes true! Can do what you like to earn $, very good woh, congrates!
pixie,
I am pretty good at multitasking
Yes, like mylvera said, the nanny settles XY, feed her dinner, feed her fruit, bath and change her, so I don't need to do anything. Very good nanny right, I told her my arrangement and she is worried XY might not get her fruit daily, so she changed her schedule a bit and give XY fruit before I fetch her.
Oh the tingkat. Pretty good. Much better than the one I ordered last time. This one is home operation, don't even have a company, I found them through this forum. Pretty ex, $170/20 days for 1 pax. But I can tell there is no MSG (cos I am very sensitive to MSG), and it's not salty and the veg are fresh. Portion small though.
tongtong/pixie/mylvera,
We know the situation very well. He knows what I am not happy very well too. But he can't do anything than to try his best. So talk to him also no use. We communicate even we don't talk, very chem hor
As of now, both incomes are a must, at least for the next few years. Besides, my hub will never want to be a SAHF, a temporarily one maybe, but not longer than 1 month kind. I don't mind become a SAHM, but my income is needed as of now. Yesterday he tried to come home "early", and it's 9pm when he reached, well at least the kids can see him and give him a kiss and a hug before heading to bed.
Anyway, I am not really that unhappy lah. Cos look at how my kids laugh, how they play with each other, how they know to sayang me, make me very happy. But tired is for sure.
But never mind, I am hanging on till October and my parents are coming! So I will just need to hold the fort for 1.5 months and my parents will be here to "save" me! Imagine when I arrive home, dinner is ready. I can take a long nice shower while my mum feeds HR dinner and my dad plays with XY. I join in to play with them, or can have the luxury to read a bit of magazine or watch tv. Then while I am putting the kids to bed, my mum will help me with the laundry and all the minor minor household chores. Just 1.5 months, I must jia you, jia you, jia you!!!