kitsune,
Aiyo, you poor thing. "History" repeats on you. You are such a great mum, so persist on BFing. If I were you, I would have given up long time ago already. Jia you, jia you, and shhh the block ducts away, go away, go away!
Today is totally a rest day for me, finally. Didn't do anything and not going to do anything. Just sleep and stone, and watch tv, surf net. Finally feel rested after so many months! My dear baby girl is turning 5 months already tomorrow.
tongtong,
Didn't do anything special, just the usual play and feed him and put him for nap. But it's just HR and I, no meimei and no hubby.
Yesterday I slept with HR after passing my girl to hubby. HR woke up briefly to change his sleeping position. He was so surprise to see me on the bed (cos me and meimei sleep in another room for about 1 week already), and he called me "mama" at his sweetest and softest tone, and gave me the warmest hug, don't want to let me go, hug me tight to sleep. Aiyo, I miss him so much!
RE: Couple time
Yes, it's very important. For us, since cannot park our kids anywhere, so gonna take leave when we really really want to have some time together. We share same interests for almost everything and have same groups of friends.